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Self-Hypnosis Script 3 — Anxiety and Nervousness Page 1 SELF-HYPNOSIS SCRIPT 3 ANXIETY AND NERVOUSNESS Prepared by Gerald Crawford A guided self-hypnosis practice for developing calm, steadiness, and confidence when facing anxious feelings.

Please read the safety reminder before beginning.

Use only in a safe place where you can relax without needing to remain alert.

Self-Hypnosis Script 3 — Anxiety and Nervousness Page 2 *Prepared by Gerald Crawford* A guided self-hypnosis practice for developing calm, steadiness, and confidence when facing anxious feelings.

Important Safety Reminder This script is intended for general relaxation and self-help.

It is not a substitute for medical care, psychological treatment, or professional advice.

Do not use it while driving, operating machinery, cooking, or doing anything that requires alertness.

Choose a safe place where you will not be disturbed.

You remain in control throughout this exercise.

You can open your eyes, move, or stop at any time.

If the exercise causes significant distress, stop and seek appropriate support.

If anxiety is persistent, severe, or interfering with daily life, consider speaking with a qualified health professional.

Part 1: Preparation of Environment and Person Estimated time: 2–3 minutes Choose a quiet, comfortable place where you feel safe and are unlikely to be interrupted.

Sit in a supportive chair or lie down comfortably.

Make sure your body is supported and that you are not too hot or too cold.

Place your hands comfortably.

Allow your legs to rest naturally.

Loosen anything that feels restrictive, and silence notifications if you wish.

Give yourself permission to take this time without needing to solve anything right now.

Before beginning, remind yourself: “I am in a safe place.

I can stop whenever I choose.

For these few minutes, I am allowing myself to pause.” You do not need to force yourself to feel calm.

You are simply creating an opportunity to slow down, notice what is happening inside you, and practise responding to yourself with patience.

Part 2: Pre-Induction Estimated time: 2–3 minutes Let your attention settle on the fact that you are here, in this moment.

You do not have to force yourself to relax.

Simply notice the support beneath you and the natural rhythm of your breathing.

Take a gentle breath in, and let it leave without effort.

Again, breathe in comfortably, and breathe out slowly.

Allow each exhalation to become a reminder that you can release a little of the tension you no longer need to hold.

Thoughts may come and go.

You do not need to fight them or follow them.

Notice a thought, then gently return your attention to your breathing or the feeling of being supported.

Say silently to yourself: “For now, I can pause.

I do not have to do everything at once.

I am giving myself permission to rest.” Self-Hypnosis Script 3 — Anxiety and Nervousness Page 3 If you notice nervousness, do not criticise yourself for it.

Anxiety is an experience you are having; it is not your identity.

You can acknowledge what you feel without allowing it to define who you are.

Part 3: Self-Hypnosis Induction Estimated time: 4–6 minutes Choose a comfortable spot to rest your gaze, or gently close your eyes if that feels right for you.

Take a slow, comfortable breath in, and breathe out naturally.

Bring your attention to your forehead.

Imagine the muscles there softening.

Let that softness move around your eyes, your cheeks, and your jaw.

Your jaw can rest; your tongue can settle comfortably.

Allow your shoulders to loosen.

Notice your upper arms, elbows, forearms, hands, and fingers.

You do not need to make anything happen.

Simply imagine each area becoming a little less tense.

Let your attention move through your chest and back, then down into your stomach and hips.

Allow your breathing to remain easy and natural.

There is no need to take unusually deep breaths.

Notice your thighs, knees, calves, ankles, and feet.

Imagine the whole body being supported, with less effort needed to hold yourself up.

If any area remains tense, that is all right.

You can simply acknowledge it without criticism.

Each breath gives you another opportunity to soften by a small amount.

Now imagine that your attention is turning inward, like lowering the volume on the outside world.

You remain aware of your surroundings and in control, while giving yourself a quiet space to reflect.

Part 4: Self-Hypnosis Deepener Estimated time: 4–6 minutes Imagine a gentle staircase with ten comfortable steps leading to a peaceful place of your choosing.

It might be a garden, a quiet beach, a forest path, or simply a calm room.

If stairs are not a helpful image for you, imagine walking down a gentle slope or counting slowly from ten to one.

With each number, allow yourself to settle a little more comfortably.

Ten… beginning to settle.

Nine… letting your shoulders rest.

Eight… allowing your breathing to find its own rhythm.

Seven… giving yourself permission to pause.

Six… letting the outside world wait for these few moments.

Five… halfway down, steady and comfortable.

Four… less need to hold on to every thought.

Self-Hypnosis Script 3 — Anxiety and Nervousness Page 4 Three… allowing a little more space inside.

Two… nearing your peaceful place.

One… arriving at a place where you can pause and gather yourself.

Take a moment to notice this peaceful setting.

You do not need to see it clearly.

A feeling, a sound, or a simple idea of calm is enough.

Remember that you can return your attention to the room whenever you choose.

Part 5: Therapeutic Intervention — Meeting Anxiety with Calm and Confidence Estimated time: 6–8 minutes Now, in this comfortable state, begin to consider the experience of anxiety in a new way.

Anxiety can sometimes feel like an alarm going off inside the body.

Your heart may beat faster.

Your breathing may change.

Your muscles may tighten.

Your thoughts may race ahead, imagining what could happen.

These experiences can feel uncomfortable.

But a feeling, a thought, or a physical sensation is not automatically proof that something bad is about to happen.

For these next few moments, you do not need to fight anxiety.

You can practise noticing it, making room for the feeling, and choosing your next response.

Imagine yourself standing beside a quiet path.

In the distance, you can see a small cloud moving across the sky.

Let that cloud represent an anxious thought.

You do not have to chase the cloud away.

You do not have to climb inside it.

You can simply watch it move across the sky.

A thought may appear: “What if something goes wrong?” Notice the thought.

Then gently remind yourself: “I am having a thought about what might happen.

I do not have to treat every thought as a prediction.” Another thought may appear: “What if I cannot cope?” Notice it, too.

Then remind yourself: “I can take one step at a time.

I can respond to what is actually happening, rather than trying to solve every possible future.” Allow the clouds to come and go.

The sky does not need to fight the clouds to remain the sky.

In the same way, you do not have to fight every thought to make a useful choice.

Self-Hypnosis Script 3 — Anxiety and Nervousness Page 5 Returning to the Present Moment Bring your attention back to the feeling of being supported where you are resting.

Notice three simple things: • The surface beneath your body. • The natural movement of your breathing. • The feeling of your hands resting comfortably.

These are reminders of the present moment.

Your mind may travel into the future, but you can gently guide your attention back to what is happening here and now.

If it feels comfortable, allow your next exhalation to be slightly slower than your inhalation.

Do not force your breath or hold it.

Let the body find a natural rhythm.

Say silently to yourself: “I am here, in this moment.” “I can notice my feelings without judging myself.” “I can return my attention to what is happening now.” “I do not need to answer every anxious thought.” “I can pause before I respond.” Building a Sense of Inner Safety Now imagine a place where you feel relatively comfortable and secure.

It may be somewhere you have visited, a peaceful outdoor setting, or an imagined space.

Notice whatever details feel pleasant to you.

Perhaps there is warm sunlight, a gentle breeze, the sound of water, or the quiet of a room.

Allow this place to become a reminder of the qualities you would like to practise: steadiness, patience, clarity, and self-respect.

This imagined place is not a promise that life will always be predictable.

It is a reminder that you can practise returning to yourself when circumstances feel uncertain.

Imagine placing one hand gently over your chest or resting both hands comfortably, if that feels right.

Say silently: “I can treat myself with kindness when I feel anxious.” “I am allowed to take a moment before responding.” Self-Hypnosis Script 3 — Anxiety and Nervousness Page 6 “I can ask for help when I need it.” “I can learn ways to support myself through uncomfortable feelings.” “I do not need to be perfectly calm to take a useful step.” Let those words settle at your own pace.

You do not have to believe every statement completely.

Simply consider whether each one offers a helpful direction.

Practising a Different Response Now bring to mind a mild situation that tends to make you nervous.

Choose something manageable rather than your most distressing experience.

Perhaps it is making a phone call, meeting someone new, attending an appointment, speaking in a group, or beginning a task you have been worrying about.

Imagine the situation from a comfortable distance.

Notice the first signs of nervousness without judging them.

Perhaps you notice tension, uncertainty, or an urge to avoid the situation.

Now imagine yourself pausing.

You feel your feet against the ground.

You allow one comfortable breath.

You look at what is actually happening rather than everything that might happen.

Then you ask yourself three useful questions: “What do I know for certain right now?” “What is the next small thing I can do?” “What support might help me if I need it?” Allow yourself to imagine taking one realistic step.

You do not have to perform perfectly.

You are practising how to remain present and make choices even when some nervousness is there.

Perhaps you speak one sentence.

Perhaps you ask one question.

Perhaps you remain in the situation a little longer than you normally would, provided it is safe and appropriate to do so.

Recognise the effort involved.

Confidence does not always mean the absence of anxiety.

Sometimes confidence means being willing to take a manageable step while anxiety is present.

Repeat silently: “I can feel nervous and still choose my next step.” “I can prepare without demanding perfection.” Self-Hypnosis Script 3 — Anxiety and Nervousness Page 7 “I can learn from experience.” “I can give myself credit for trying.” “I can build confidence through practice, patience, and support.” Let yourself rest with these ideas for a few moments.

You are not required to change everything today.

You are practising a different relationship with your thoughts and feelings—one that includes patience, choice, and the possibility of progress.

Part 6: Positive Reinforcement and Future Pacing Estimated time: 2–3 minutes Imagine an ordinary day in the near future.

You encounter a situation that would usually make you nervous.

You notice the familiar feeling beginning to arise.

Instead of criticising yourself or immediately assuming the worst, you pause.

You remind yourself to return to the present moment.

You allow your breathing to remain comfortable.

You identify the next manageable step.

You may still feel some nervousness, but you are no longer treating that feeling as a command that you must avoid the situation.

Picture yourself responding in a way that reflects your values.

Perhaps you speak honestly, ask for clarification, prepare carefully, or reach out for support.

Allow the scene to remain realistic.

You are not trying to create a perfect future.

You are imagining yourself using a skill that can improve with practice.

Repeat silently: “I can meet uncertainty one moment at a time.” “I can respond to myself with patience.” “I can focus on what I can influence.” “I can take small steps towards what matters to me.” “I can seek help and support when I need it.” “I am learning to respond to anxiety with greater awareness.” Take a moment to acknowledge yourself for making time to practise.

Self-Hypnosis Script 3 — Anxiety and Nervousness Page 8 Part 7: Reorientation and Safe Completion Estimated time: 2–3 minutes Unless you are using this session specifically at bedtime and intend to continue sleeping, begin bringing your attention back to the room.

Notice the surface supporting you and the sounds around you.

I will count from one to five.

With each number, you can become more alert and present, at a pace that feels comfortable.

One… noticing your breathing.

Two… becoming aware of your hands and feet.

Three… gently moving your fingers and toes if you wish.

Four… taking a comfortable breath and allowing your body to wake up.

Five… opening your eyes when ready, feeling present and aware of your surroundings.

Take your time before standing.

Stretch gently if that feels comfortable.

Do not resume driving or other safety-sensitive activities until you feel fully alert and steady.

After the Session Ask yourself: • What did I notice about my anxious thoughts? • Which reminder felt most helpful? • What is one small, realistic step I can take when nervousness arises? You may wish to write down your answers.

There is no need to judge your experience or expect an immediate change.

Notice what was useful and adapt your practice accordingly.

If anxiety is severe, persistent, associated with panic, or interfering with daily functioning, seek support from an appropriately qualified health professional.

You do not have to manage it alone.

Recording Guidance Read slowly and warmly, leaving comfortable pauses after reflective questions and affirmations.

The estimated timings are guides rather than requirements.

Keep the delivery calm and unhurried.

Never pressure the listener to experience a particular sensation or outcome. **Companion documents for the full giveaway:** Provide the Self-Hypnosis Preparation Guide and the Self-Hypnosis Disclaimer and Release of Responsibility alongside the individual scripts.