Hypnotherapy is well known for healing trauma and pain relief. Hypnosis is also extremely valuable in working with sports enhancement, weight loss, motivation, self-esteem, anxiety, panic attacks, insomnia, increased confidence, smoking, phobias and stress related issues.

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Meditation for Beginners

What is meditation? If you were to browse the INTERNET for an answer, you would find a variety of definitions depending on the specific school of meditation you were investigating.

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A general definition might go something like this:

Meditation is the practice of quieting the mind by focusing the mind’s attention on an object (the breath, a mantra, a sound, a visual object, isochronic tones, a feeling, etc.).

I will explore how to meditate, the different types or schools of meditation, and the benefits associated with meditation.

How to Meditate

Here are some basic, flexible instructions on how to meditate. Keep in mind that how you meditate will change depending on the school of meditation that you choose to practice.

1.) Find a quiet, peaceful place to meditate where you won’t be disturbed or interrupted. Make sure to turn off your phone, television, or any other device that might make noise or disturb you. Best if you use the same place and time for your daily meditations. That way your meditation will develop as a habit.

2.) If you like, you can choose some calm, meditative music to listen to. Or you can just choose silence. Whatever works best for you.

3.) Make sure to wear comfortable clothes when you meditate, nothing that will constrict you in any way or make you uncomfortable.

4.) Find a comfortable position in which to sit. You can sit on a cushion and use a full lotus or half lotus position to meditate in, or you can simply sit in a comfortable chair. Your meditation posture will likely be determined by which school of meditation you take up. Since I have some lower back issues, I lay down on the couch to meditate (works for me). It’s important to be comfortable and relaxed and keep your spine straight and supported by the posture you choose to sit in.

5.) Close your eyes if you haven’t already.

6.) Relax. You can use a fraction relaxation technique, relaxing different parts of the body one area at a time. This technique is often used in hypnosis as well as meditation. You can breathe deeply in a slow, relaxed rhythm. You can focus on an object (breath, mantra, visual object). This is the beginning of your meditation.

7.) Meditate. Your meditation is the focusing of your mind on a specific object. The object can be something as simple as your breath. Following the flow of your breath is a common meditative technique. Or you can silently repeat a mantra which is used in Transcendental Meditation (TM). You can focus your visual attention on an object with your eyes open or even shut. Focusing your attention on an object to the exclusion of all else will not only help you to relax you but will help to quiet your mind.

Types of Meditation

Zen Meditation or Zazen. Zen Meditation dates back to the Tang Dynasty in 7th century China. It is a school of meditation that is generally part of a Buddhist practice. Zen involves steps and postures and there is a focus on breathing and the practice of observing thoughts without judgment Zen Meditation is a path of self-vigilance and self-discovery. If you’re interested in learning more, check out this site on Zen Buddhism.

Transcendental MeditationMaharishi Mahesh Yogi introduced the TM method in India back in the 1950s. It is a form of meditation that uses a silent mantra for 15-20 minutes twice a day. It is often described as simple and effortless. The TM method requires a teacher, or so they say. Once learned, it’s supposed to be quite simple to practice.

Mindfulness Meditation. Mindfulness Meditation is all about being present and aware in the moment. It generally follows these steps: Get settled in your meditation posture, follow your breath, and when your mind wanders, come back to following your breath.

Casual Meditation. Well, that’s what I refer to a meditation technique that is informal and doesn’t rely on a specific school of meditation. I use a couple different techniques in my meditation. I use the following the flow of my breath technique but also add in visualizing a spot in front of my mind’s eye technique (my eyes are closed). This combination helps me get focused and when my mind becomes still, I then focus my awareness on my quiet mind and keep my focus and attention there. If my mind wanders, I go back to focusing on having a quiet mind. That’s what works for me. And, as I mentioned earlier, because of my lower back issues, I lay on a couch for my meditations. I usually practice meditating twice a day.

And now, on to the benefits associated with meditation.

Benefits

The benefits of meditation are well-researched and plentiful. They include cognitive benefits (focus and concentration, memory retention, creativity, etc.), emotional benefits (stress, anxiety, etc.), and even physiological benefits. Below is a list of some those benefits.

Focus and Concentration. A study led by Katherine MacLean of the University of California found that during and after meditation training, practitioners were more adept at keeping focus, especially on repetitive and boring tasks. Other studies reflected similar results.

Memory Retention.

Enhances the Brain. The following info on the influence of cognitive brain functioning from meditation comes from Frontiers in Psychology:

… there is ample evidence for its beneficial effects for a number of cognitive domains, including attention, memory, verbal fluency, executive function, processing speed, overall cognitive flexibility as well as conflict monitoring and even creativity.

Another benefit includes the maintaining of gray matter as people age. Keep in mind a person’s brain begins to lose size and weight beginning in their twenties. Long-term meditators (20 years or more) maintain more brain matter than non-meditators.

Can Reduce Stress. Here are the results of a study on meditation as it relates to cortisol (often referred to as the “stress hormone”) levels in the blood.

Mindfulness meditation lowers the cortisol levels in the blood suggesting that it can lower stress and may decrease the risk of diseases that arise from stress such as psychiatric disorder, peptic ulcer and migraine. Then, mindfulness meditation should be used in combination with standard treatment.

Reduces Worry, Anxiety, and Depression. Numerous studies have shown that the practice of meditation can help to regulate mood and anxiety disorders, and it also helps reduce blood pressure.

Insomnia Relief. That’s right. Insomnia. As a side note, insomnia is the reason I started meditating. I read an article about meditation increasing melatonin production (about 100% on average) and decided to give it a try.

For many years, I suffered from MOTN (middle of the night insomnia). I would sleep for 3-5 hours, then wake up and stay awake for another 2-3 hours before getting back to sleep again. I needed a nap virtually every day. I was going crazy and tried everything. Nothing worked till I began meditating. The natural increase in melatonin did the trick. I sleep so much better now, never need a nap, and in addition, get all the other great benefits associated with meditation. Easily, one of the best things I ever did for myself.

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Hypnotherapy is ideal for Anger Management

Hypnotherapy can help those with anger management problems in several ways. The initial aim of the hypnotherapist will be to understand the root cause of your anger.

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As previously mentioned, anger management problems often stem from past experiences. These experiences can shape your behaviour and belief system. So while you may think another person or situation is causing your anger, it may well come from yourself. Once this is understood, your hypnotherapist can begin work changing this.

To do so, your hypnotherapist will work on a conscious and unconscious level to help change your negative thought processes. Doing this may involve relaxation techniques and suggestions from your hypnotherapist to help control your anger.

The hope is that this will change your reaction to anger triggers. Instead of feeling overwhelmed and angry, you should feel calmer and more relaxed. Feeling calmer in stressful situations helps you to think more clearly so you can react in a more appropriate way.

Anger management hypnotherapy can also help with some of the symptoms of anger. For example, if you are suffering from anxiety, stress or depression hypnotherapy can be helpful.

The number of anger management hypnotherapy sessions you’ll need will depend on your individual circumstances. It is likely that your hypnotherapist will teach you some self-hypnosis techniques and relaxation tips. You can use these at home when you feel angry or stressed to help you control your anger in the long-term.

The goal of anger management. Many people think that anger management is about learning to suppress your anger. The true goal of anger management isn’t to suppress feelings of anger, but rather to understand the message behind the emotion and express it in a healthy way without losing control.

Feeling angry is a normal part of life. Usually anger is a result of feeling frustrated, insulted, deceived or even under attack. For many, anger is a natural reaction that passes quickly. In some instances however, it can become a difficult emotion to control.

Failing to manage anger effectively can lead to mental and physical health problems. You may find your anger management issues are affecting your relationships, your work or even your self-esteem.

On this page we’ll look at anger management in more detail and offer tips on how to deal with anger. We’ll also explore treatment options such as hypnotherapy for anger.

When does anger become a problem?
Anger can be a useful emotion that triggers a physical reaction in the body. This reaction is called ‘fight or flight’ and it normally happens when we are stressed or threatened. Adrenaline is pumped around the body, making you feel tense and ready to ‘fight’ the threat, or flee.

The problem here is that fighting or running away isn’t usually an appropriate option. This can make it difficult for us to express anger, and this is where some people develop a problem.

When you aren’t able to express your anger, you may bottle it up. This can cause angry outbursts at inappropriate times. It may also make you feel more angry in general, leading you to react more aggressively in other situations.

Everyone’s experience will differ, but the following types of anger issues are recognized as potentially damaging:

  • Chronic anger – Ongoing, prolonged anger can affect the immune system and result in other mental health issues.
  • Passive anger – When people express their anger in a passive way it often affects relationships.
  • Overwhelmed anger – Caused when an individual feels there is simply too much to cope with.
  • Self-inflicted anger – When anger is directed toward yourself due to guilt, it can be mentally damaging.
  • Judgmental anger – Directed towards others, the feeling of anger usually comes with resentment.
  • Volatile anger – Leading to violent outbursts, this form of anger can be troubling for loved ones.

If you don’t learn how to deal with anger, it can lead to physical and mental health problems.

Physical effects of anger
Suffering from anger management issues in the long-term can affect your health.

Research shows it can link to the following conditions:

  • high blood pressure
  • colds and flu
  • heart disease
  • cancer
  • stroke
  • stomach problems.

If you are worried about any physical symptoms, you should consider seeking advice from your doctor. They will be able to assess your symptoms and see if they could be linked to your anger management issues.

Emotional effects of anger

Not being able to express your anger can eventually lead to further mental health conditions, such as:

  • depression
  • self-harm
  • anxiety.

In some cases, anger management problems can be a symptom of another mental health concern. If you are experiencing any of these conditions a visit to your doctor is recommended.

Do I need help with anger management?
Recognizing that you have a problem with anger management can be difficult. You may think being angry is just the way you are, or you may not recognise your symptoms as anger related.

If the following has happened, you may benefit from professional anger management help:

  • Your behaviour has led you to break the law.
  • You are violent towards your partner, family or other people.
  • You deliberately break things or damage property.
  • You regularly argue with those close to you.
  • You feel angry constantly but feel unable to express yourself.
  • You feel out of control when you are angry and are worried about what you might do.
  • In terms of getting help, there are various approaches you could try including dedicated programmes,
  • alking therapies and anger management hypnotherapy.

Anger management courses often help groups of people at a time. The aim of these courses is to offer alternative ways of dealing with anger. They often teach self-help techniques and relaxation exercises.

Talking therapies like counselling and cognitive behavioural therapy normally take place one on one. These approaches will try to help you understand the cause of your anger. The ultimate goal is to help you change your behaviour.

Hypnotherapy is an increasingly popular therapy option for those looking to change their behaviour. Anger management hypnotherapy in particular can help establish the underlying source of anger before changing unhelpful thought patterns.

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