Hypnotherapy is well known for healing trauma and pain relief. Hypnosis is also extremely valuable in working with sports enhancement, weight loss, motivation, self-esteem, anxiety, panic attacks, insomnia, increased confidence, smoking, phobias and stress related issues.

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Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT)

Emotional Freedom Techniques is a technique that stimulates acupressure points by pressuring, tapping or rubbing while focusing on situations that represent personal fear or trauma.

The common setup phrase is: “Even though I have this [fear or problem], I deeply and completely accept myself.”

Location of the tapping points on the hand, head, and torso.

Emotional freedom technique (EFT) is a method some people use to help manage emotions and troubling thoughts. They may also use it to lower their stress and anxiety. For example, EFT may help calm you if you’re feeling angry. Or it may help ease your thoughts if you’re worried about something.

EFT is also called tapping. This is because to do EFT, you tap your fingertips on certain points on your hand, head, and torso. The points you tap on for EFT are like those used in acupuncture.

Experts don’t agree on how well EFT works. And it shouldn’t replace going to see a health professional for serious issues like depression and trauma.

How to do EFT

Emotional freedom technique (EFT) is an alternative treatment for physical pain and emotional distress. It’s also referred to as tapping or psychological acupressure.

People who use this technique believe tapping the body can create a balance in your energy system and treat pain. According to its developer, Gary Craig, a disruption in energy is the cause of all negative emotions and pain.

Though still being researched, EFT tapping has been used to treat people with anxiety and people with post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD).

You can do EFT, or tapping, whenever you feel upset. You may find that it helps you feel better.

To do EFT, follow these steps: Think of an issue that’s bothering you. This could be any issue. For example, it could be something you’re feeling anxious or sad about. Measure how your issue makes you feel. Rate how bad you feel on a scale from 0 to 10. A score of 0 means you don’t feel bad at all. But a score of 10 means you feel as bad as possible. Write down this number. Create a statement that describes your issue, followed by a statement of self-acceptance.

For example, you could say, “Even though I feel anxious about work tomorrow, I deeply and completely accept myself.” Or you could say, “Even though my partner broke up with me, I deeply and completely accept myself.”

Tap repeatedly on the edge of your palm, below your little finger. While you tap, say your statement out loud 3 times. Now tap on the rest of the points on your body, one at a time. While you tap, state your issue over and over. For example, you might repeat “anxious about test” or “we broke up.”

Tap on each point in this order:

  • Tap on the top, centre of your head.
  • Tap on the inside edge of one eyebrow.
  • Tap next to the outside edge of one eye.
  • Tap on the bone underneath one eye.
  • Tap between your nose and your upper lip.
  • Tap between your lower lip and your chin.
  • Tap beneath one collarbone (find the notch beneath the inside edge of the collarbone).
  • Tap under one armpit (about 10 centimeters).

Stop and remeasure how you feel about your issue. Repeat the steps if needed. Tap until you can give your issue a lower number, or until you feel better.

How does EFT tapping work?
Similar to acupuncture, EFT focuses on the meridian points – or energy hot spots – to restore balance to your body’s energy. It’s believed that restoring this energy balance can relieve symptoms a negative experience or emotion may have caused.

Based on Chinese medicine, meridian points are thought of as areas of the body energy flows through. These pathways help balance energy flow to maintain your health. Any imbalance can influence disease or sickness.

Acupuncture uses needles to apply pressure to these energy points. EFT uses fingertip tapping to apply pressure.

Proponents say the tapping helps you access your body’s energy and send signals to the part of the brain that controls stress. They claim that stimulating the meridian points through EFT tapping can reduce the stress or negative emotion you feel from your issue, ultimately restoring balance to your disrupted energy.

EFT tapping in 5 steps
EFT tapping can be divided into five steps. If you have more than one issue or fear, you can repeat this sequence to address it and reduce or eliminate the intensity of your negative feeling.

1. Identify the issue
In order for this technique to be effective, you must first identify the issue or fear you have. This will be your focal point while you’re tapping. Focusing on only one problem at a time is purported to enhance your outcome.

2. Test the initial intensity
After you identify your problem area, you need to set a benchmark level of intensity. The intensity level is rated on a scale from 0 to 10, with 10 being the worst or most difficult. The scale assesses the emotional or physical pain and discomfort you feel from your focal issue.

Establishing a benchmark helps you monitor your progress after performing a complete EFT sequence. If your initial intensity was 10 prior to tapping and ended at 5, you’d have accomplished a 50 percent improvement level.

3. The setup
Prior to tapping, you need to establish a phrase that explains what you’re trying to address. It must focus on two main goals:

  • acknowledging the issues
  • accepting yourself despite the problem

The common setup phrase is: “Even though I have this [fear or problem], I deeply and completely accept myself.”

You can alter this phrase so that it fits your problem, but it must not address someone else’s. For example, you can’t say, “Even though my mother is sick, I deeply and completely accept myself.” You have to focus on how the problem makes you feel in order to relieve the distress it causes.

It’s better to address this situation by saying, “Even though I’m sad my mother is sick, I deeply and completely accept myself.”

4. EFT tapping sequence
The EFT tapping sequence is the methodic tapping on the ends of nine meridian points.

There are 12 major meridians that mirror each side of the body and correspond to an internal organ. However, EFT mainly focuses on these nine:

  • side of hand, sometimes referred to as “karate chop” (KC): small intestine meridian
  • top of head (TH): governing vessel
  • eyebrow (EB): bladder meridian
  • side of the eye (SE): gallbladder meridian
  • under the eye (UE): stomach meridian
  • under the nose (UN): governing vessel
  • chin (Ch): central vessel
  • beginning of the collarbone (CB): kidney meridian
  • under the arm (UA): spleen meridian

Begin by tapping the side of hand point while simultaneously reciting your setup phrase three times.

Then, tap each following point seven times, moving down the body in this ascending order:

  • eyebrow
  • side of the eye
  • under the eye
  • under the nose
  • chin
  • beginning of the collarbone
  • under the arm

After tapping the underarm point, finish the sequence at the top of the head point.

While tapping the ascending points, recite a reminder phrase to maintain focus on your problem area. If your setup phrase is, “Even though I’m sad my mother is sick, I deeply and completely accept myself,” your reminder phrase can be, “The sadness I feel that my mother is sick.”

Recite this phrase at each tapping point. Repeat this sequence two or three times.

5. Test the final intensity
At the end of your sequence, rate your intensity level on a scale from 0 to 10. Compare your results with your initial intensity level. If you haven’t reached 0, repeat this process until you do.

Does EFT tapping work?
EFT has been used to effectively treat war veterans and active military with PTSD. In a 2013 study, researchers studied the impact of EFT tapping on veterans with PTSD against those receiving standard care.

Within a month, participants receiving EFT coaching sessions had significantly reduced their psychological stress. In addition, more than half of the EFT test group no longer fit the criteria for PTSD.

There are also some success stories from people with anxiety using EFT tapping as an alternative treatment.

A 2016 review compared the effectiveness of using EFT tapping over standard care options for anxiety symptoms.

A 2022 study found EFT to be effective in increasing self-esteem in nurses. Another study in 2023 showed that EFT reduced anxiety and stress for health care professionals during COVID-19.

The study concluded there was a significant decrease in anxiety scores compared to participants receiving other care. However, further research is needed to compare EFT treatment with other cognitive therapy techniques.

The Benefits of EFT Tapping:

Tapping can be used on any and all problems that you may be facing. From physical pain to emotional trauma and even something as seemingly small as hiccups, EFT has the potential to change your current circumstances in minutes.

  • Anxiety and Panic attacks
  • Stress
  • Depression
  • Insecurity and self-esteem issues
  • Fears, like heights, flying, public speaking
  • Phobias such as water, spiders, small and enclosed spaces
  • Physical pain
  • Trauma
  • Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)
  • Relationship issues with romantic partners and family members
  • Workplace stress and problems
  • Illness
  • Addictions like smoking, drinking, food
  • Insomnia
  • Patterns, such as constantly being late, chronic injuries, attracting bad circumstances
  • Negative state of mind
  • Childhood issues
  • Anger
  • Concentration and motivation

The bottom line

While there are some success stories, researchers are still investigating its effectiveness on other disorders and illnesses. Continue to seek traditional treatment options. However, if you decide to pursue this alternative therapy, consult with your doctor first to reduce the likelihood of injury or worsening symptoms.

EFT tapping is an alternative acupressure therapy treatment used to restore balance to your disrupted energy. It’s been an authorized treatment for war veterans with PTSD, and it’s demonstrated some benefits as a treatment for anxiety, depression, physical pain, and insomnia.

 

Power of Perspective – With Hypnosis We Can Changes That

Have you ever thought about how powerful your thoughts are? Our thoughts hold a lot of say over how we feel and act. I am also a believer that we have the ability to choose how we react to our thoughts.

How we look at things affects how we interact with our world. The perspective we have in relation to our grief can be the difference between living a life of pain or living a life of love.

Loss is inevitable in life.

The second you enter into a relationship with anyone, it will end in some way at some point. This is a life truth. There are two sides to this experience, though, when you do lose someone. You have a choice to focus on not necessarily all that was lost but, instead, making the choice to focus on all that was gained when that relationship was in your life. This is not inherently easy to do, but it can be a very beneficial practice. A healthy way to heal would be to focus on what that loved one brought to your life and all of the beautiful times you had with them.

Some people wear their grief so heavily that they shut off from the world or may even give up on life.

Hopelessness or intense despair is one of the key factors of suicidal ideation. This is the sense that “I will never be happy again. I will never find love again.” An outlook like this only adds flames to the fire of pain. What if instead, as a person who has just experienced loss, you consciously focus on remembering everything great about that person, all of the amazing memories, and all of the wonderful experiences? There is always hope if we don’t give up. Trust that in life, we can love again with new people that come into our lives.

If we live long enough, sooner or later, we will probably lose both of our parents. If you are an animal lover, it’s inevitable that they most likely won’t live as long as you either. You may have a friend who passed away or a loved one who died of cancer. Honestly, the examples of losing a being we love are endless.

When a loss occurs, whether through moving, a breakup, or death, we can still be OK. We can remember the beautiful moments and celebrate them rather than focusing on the relationship being over.

Choosing to keep living, finding joy in life, and creating new memories are all healthy coping options.

Following the theme of perspective and impermanence, I also enjoy learning about near-death experiences. There are millions of reports around the world about this phenomenon. I have found something rather beautiful in examining thousands of these cases myself. Some people believe that when they die, they are dead for eternity. Ironically, these people who don’t believe in the afterlife and have near-death experiences report accounts of being greeted by loved ones that have passed before them.

I personally find so much comfort in learning about these experiences. It brings me so much peace, especially in times of grief.

How to cope with grief:

It helps to be thankful for the life you shared with a person after they are gone. What if, instead of sitting in the pain of losing the person, you said, “I am beyond thankful for the memories and connection I had with you, and I am also going to continue living and create new connections with new people.”

When you do lose somebody or something, it is helpful to recognize all of the love that still exists within your life currently. There may be so many other people who still love you or pets who adore you.

You can not replace the love you lost, but looking at all of the love and support that still exists within you and with others is powerful.

When you choose this alternative path of grieving, you open up a door for others to walk through as well. When your day comes to go home, to be done with this life on Earth, imagine if others remembered you like this. The beings who care about you now get the opportunity to reminisce about your memory. How amazing is it that they get to smile in their hearts because of what happened between them and you? I’m sure your heart would break if those you love stopped living their lives because they were stuck in grief over you.

Life can be cruel. Life can take your husband or take your child way too soon. I am not saying this isn’t painful. I am saying you have a choice, though, to take an approach of gratitude and thankfulness for having a person who was so important in your life that it hurts so much to lose them.

The impact that person or experience had on you must’ve been full of so much love, and it would be unfair if you didn’t acknowledge how much you do love them.

If we shift our focus from crying over the relationship being over and instead smiling in our hearts because it happened, we have a much higher chance of healing. I think hope rises out of those ashes, too, when we make this choice.

We can remember everything beautiful that happened with them, we can honour their life, and we can absolutely love again.

Whether it’s dealing with a national tragedy or the loss of a loved one, the feeling of loss or bereavement can be debilitating, causing anxiety, insomnia, and depression. Letting yourself feel the loss through crying helps your body and mind, hypnotherapy offer help for those coping with loss – including talking about the death of your loved one, taking care of your health, reaching out to others who are dealing with the loss, accepting your feelings, and celebrating the life of the one you lost.

Coping mechanisms for dealing with loss are personal. Hypnotherapy can help by providing positive suggestions to help cope with the symptoms of grieving and help with finding ways of dealing with loss as time passes. HHC helps people cope with loss by having them put a “timer” on their bereavement. “Normally, they let me know when they are sick and tired of being sick and tired of bereavement.”

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