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Breaking the Bad Habit of Nail biting with Hypnotherapy

Nail biting, also known as Onychophagia, is a common habit that can be caused by a variety of factors.

Here is a list:
  • GeneticsNail biting can be genetic, with children more likely to bite their nails if their parents do. 
  • AnxietyNail biting can be a way for some people to cope with stress or anxiety. 
  • BoredomNail biting can be a way to keep hands busy when you’re bored, hungry, or need a distraction. 
  • Learned behaviourNail biting can be learned from family members.
Nail biting can have negative consequences, including:
  • Damaged nailsChronic nail biting can damage nails and the skin around them. 
  • InfectionPutting your fingers in your mouth can introduce bacteria into your body. 
  • Dental issuesThe force of biting nails can damage teeth, gums, and the temporomandibular joint. 
  • Social and psychological consequencesNail biting can decrease self-evaluation and increase concerns about how others perceive you.

We understand that habits – both good and bad – are usually established unconsciously, and operate unconsciously. Therefore will power is often insufficient to bring about changes in long established behaviours. If you want to get someone to stop carrying out a compulsive behaviour such as hair pulling, or nail biting, or whatever, change needs to take place at a much deeper level than just the conscious realization that biting your nails isn’t a nice thing to do.

You need to discover the original purpose of the habitual behaviour. What perceived need did that behaviour attempt, however inadequately, to meet and satisfy? And then you need to discover whether that need is still there. If it is not, the behaviour can be dropped, as it is no longer required. If it is, you need to explore what new, more appropriate, behaviour might meet that need as, or even more, effectively.

Only then will you be able to accept and integrate the necessary change.

Here is a sample hypnotherapy script for nail biting:

Induction

“Welcome to this hypnotherapy session, where you’ll learn to overcome the habit of nail biting. Find a comfortable position, either sitting or lying down, and take a deep breath in through your nose and out through your mouth.

Imagine yourself standing in a peaceful, relaxing place. It could be a beach, a forest, or a mountain meadow. Allow yourself to fully immerse in this scene, taking in the sights, sounds, and sensations.

As you breathe in, imagine fresh, calm air filling your lungs. As you breathe out, imagine any tension, anxiety, or stress leaving your body. Repeat this process several times, allowing yourself to relax more with each breath.

Deepening

“Now, I’d like you to imagine a gentle, soothing warmth spreading through your body, starting at the crown of your head and flowing down to your toes. As this warmth spreads, it’s calming your mind, relaxing your body, and quieting your nervous system.

Imagine yourself becoming heavier, more relaxed, and more calm with each breath. Your eyelids are growing heavy, and your body is feeling more and more relaxed.

Suggestions

“When you’re ready, imagine yourself being completely free from the habit of nail biting. You’re feeling confident, capable, and in control.

Repeat the following affirmations to yourself:

* I am in control of my actions and choices.

* I am capable of stopping nail biting.

* I am confident in my ability to overcome this habit.

Visualization

“Now, imagine yourself in a situation where you would normally bite your nails, but this time, you’re choosing to do something different. You’re choosing to take a deep breath, relax, and focus on your surroundings.

Imagine yourself engaging in a new, healthier habit, such as taking a deep breath, counting to ten, or doing a quick stretch. You’re feeling proud of yourself for making this positive change.

Counting and Awakening

“As you continue to relax and visualize yourself overcoming nail biting, I’ll count from five to one, and when I reach one, you’ll slowly open your eyes, feeling refreshed, renewed, and ready to take control of your actions.

Five… your body is relaxed, your mind is calm.

Four… you’re feeling more confident and capable with each breath.

Three… you’re imagining yourself succeeding in stopping nail biting.

Two… you’re feeling proud and happy with your progress.

One… you’re a confident and capable individual, ready to take control of your actions. Open your eyes, feeling refreshed and renewed.”

Post-Hypnotic Suggestions

“From now on, whenever you feel the urge to bite your nails, you’ll take a deep breath, relax, and focus on your surroundings. You’ll remind yourself of your confidence and capability to overcome this habit.

You’ll engage in healthier habits, such as taking a deep breath, counting to ten, or doing a quick stretch. You’ll feel proud of yourself for making this positive change.

Remember, you are in control of your actions and choices. You are capable of stopping nail biting. You are confident in your ability to overcome this habit.”

Remember to practice self-hypnosis regularly to reinforce these positive affirmations and to continue building your confidence and motivation to overcome nail biting.

Hypnotherapy and CBT can help with Body-Focused Repetitive Behaviors – BFRB’s

Body-focused repetitive behaviors (BFRB’s) are intense urges like biting, picking, and pulling that can cause damage. As many as 1 in 20 people have a BFRB, but they can be dismissed as “bad habits.”

While BFRBs share some symptoms with obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD), they’re not the same. They’re also different from self-harming rituals, like cutting yourself.

Who’s Likely to Have Them?

Experts are still trying to figure this out, but they know your genes are involved. If someone in your family has a BFRB, you’re more likely to have one, too. Other things that might play a role include your personality, the amount of stress in your life, your childhood, and even the age you first started showing signs of a BFRB. More women have them than men.

Dermatillomania

If you can’t help but pick at pimples, scabs, bumps, or even healthy skin, you have dermatillomania, sometimes called excoriation disorder. Doctors don’t know what causes it, but people who have obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD) are more likely to have it. Wearing bandages on your fingers or keeping your hands busy with a fidget spinner may stop you from picking so much.

Onychophagia

You probably know this BFRB by its common name: nail biting. As many as 30% of people do this — some aren’t even aware of it. Besides damaging your skin and nails, this also can hurt your teeth and lead to infections. Keeping your nails trimmed short can help. You can also use a special nail product that has a bitter taste.

Morsicatio Buccarum

People with this BFRB can’t stop biting the inside of their mouths. Over time, this causes sores and swelling. The inner lining of your mouth can also start to feel bumpy, which may make you want to chew it more. Since people often do this to self-soothe, it can help to find a different action, like chewing gum, that gives you the same feeling.

Morsicatio Labiorum

This is when you have the urge to chew, bite, or suck on your inner lip. After a while, it can make the skin cells on your lip slough off and create a rough white, gray, or yellow patch. Wearing a “lip bumper,” a device that keeps your lower teeth away from your lips, can help break this cycle. Talk therapy can also help you deal with feelings that may be behind this BFRB.

Morsicatio Linguarum

Some people chew on the sides of their tongues. It’s more common than you’d think and is often caused by stress. Your dentist may suggest that you wear a special mouth guard that covers your teeth and shields your tongue. You can also talk to your doctor about ways to better manage your stress.

Onychotillomania

If you have this BFRB, you can’t stop picking or pulling at your fingernails and toenails, as well as the skin around them. (You may also chew or bite them.) Over time, this leads to hangnails and open sores, and you can pass germs from your mouth into your skin. That can lead to infections. Instead, you might play with Silly Putty or squeeze a stress ball. Wearing a pair of gloves could help, too.

Dermatophagia

This is when you chew on your skin, then eat it or the scabs. Tension and worry can be a trigger. Something you feel on your skin, like a hangnail, can also set you off. Some people find they can get rid of this BFRB in baby steps. For instance, choose a small area (like your thumbs) to stop chewing. Work your way up to one set of nails, then the other, and continue from there.

Rhinotillexomania

If you pick your nose so much that it affects your daily life, you may have rhinotillexomania. In some cases, people spend hours each day trying to clean out their noses. People who have this BFRB are also more likely to have another one, like skin picking or biting their nails. Try to notice each time you have the urge to pick your nose and write down how you feel at the time. This might help you figure out your triggers and what to do about them.

Trichotillomania

Some people yank hair from their heads, eyelashes, eyebrows, or other parts of their bodies. Anxiety or boredom can trigger it. In some cases, people don’t know they’re pulling their hair. Trichotillomania often starts between ages 10 and 13, but it can be a problem for life. You can try to replace it with another, more healthy habit. For example, you might knit, crochet, or cross-stitch to keep your fingers busy.

Trichophagia

As many as 20% of people who pull their hair also eat it. Some people nibble at the roots, while others eat bunches. In very rare cases, people eat other people’s hair or hair from animals. If you swallow a lot of hair, you can get a hairball in your stomach. If that happens and it’s not taken out, it can be life-threatening.

Trichodaganomania

Hair biting is the basis of this BFRB. Since it’s hard to chew on the hair attached to your scalp, most people nibble hair on other parts of their body. Like all BFRBs, negative feelings can be a root cause. Doing something else with your mouth can help. For example, you might chew on gum or a raw piece of spaghetti. You could also suck on a mint or crack open sunflower seeds with your teeth.

Trichotemnomania

In Greek, “temnein” means “to cut” and “trich” is ”hair.” If you have this BFRB, you have a strong urge to remove hair from your body. This includes more than what’s on your scalp. You may also cut or shave your eyebrows, the hair on your arms, legs, or pubic area. Like hair-pulling, trichotemnomania’s an obsessive-compulsive act. Deep down, you may believe cutting your hair will get rid of unwanted thoughts.

Treatment Can Help

If you have a BFRB, you can try several things to keep your habit from taking over your life. Hypnotherapy with a combination of Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) can help.

This type of therapy helps make you aware of your feelings and thoughts and gives you more control over them. Sometimes medicines can help, too. Talk with your doctor or therapist about what might work best for you.

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