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Imagine a gentle, loving energy surrounding you, whispering words of affirmation and validation.

Here is a sample hypnotherapy script for overcoming feelings of being second best:

**Induction**

“Welcome to this hypnotherapy session, where you’ll learn to let go of the need to compare and compete, and instead, cultivate a sense of self-worth and confidence. Take a deep breath in, and as you exhale, allow yourself to relax, letting go of any tension or stress.

Imagine yourself standing on a peaceful beach, surrounded by calm waves and a warm, sunny sky. With each breath, feel your body relax, your mind calm, and your heart rate slow down.

As you inhale, repeat the phrase ‘I am enough’ to yourself. And as you exhale, repeat ‘I am worthy.’ Allow these words to become a gentle mantra, guiding you deeper into relaxation and self-acceptance.

Now, take a moment to visualize a radiant, golden light filling your body, starting from the crown of your head and flowing down to your toes. As this light travels, it nourishes your self-esteem, helping you to feel more confident and self-assured.”

**Deepening**

“As you continue to breathe deeply, imagine yourself sinking deeper into relaxation, like a leaf gently floating down a peaceful stream. With each breath, your body becomes heavier, more relaxed, and more tranquil.

Now, visualize a staircase before you, descending into the depths of your subconscious mind. With each step, you feel yourself becoming more relaxed, more calm, and more centered.

Take 5-10 deep breaths, and with each exhale, repeat the phrase ‘I release all need for comparison.’ Allow yourself to let go of the need to compete, to compare, and to feel like you’re not good enough.”

**Releasing the Need for Validation**

“Imagine a mirror before you, reflecting your true self. As you gaze into the mirror, notice how you’re comparing yourself to others, trying to measure up to their standards. Notice how this makes you feel – inadequate, uncertain, and unhappy.

Now, imagine a gentle, loving energy surrounding you, whispering words of affirmation and validation. ‘You are enough, just as you are. You are worthy of love and respect, regardless of your accomplishments or achievements.’

As you continue to breathe deeply, repeat the phrase ‘I am enough, I am worthy’ to yourself. Allow these words to become a guiding principle in your life, reminding you of your inherent value and worth.”

**Building Self-Confidence**

“Imagine yourself in a situation where you previously felt like you were second best. See yourself handling the situation with confidence, poise, and self-assurance. Notice how you’re not comparing yourself to others, but instead, focusing on your own strengths and abilities.

As you continue to visualize, repeat the phrase ‘I trust myself, I believe in myself.’ Allow these words to become a powerful affirmation, empowering you to take bold action and pursue your goals with confidence.”

**Integration and Awakening**

“Take a moment to acknowledge the profound shift that has occurred within you. Notice how your body feels more relaxed, your mind clearer, and your heart more at peace.

As you slowly return to a state of full consciousness, remember that you have the power to choose your thoughts, to focus on your strengths, and to cultivate a sense of self-worth and confidence.

When you’re ready, slowly open your eyes, and take a deep breath, feeling refreshed, renewed, and empowered to live a life of self-acceptance, confidence, and purpose.”

**Final Suggestions**

“Remember to practice self-compassion, kindness, and patience with yourself as you navigate the journey of overcoming feelings of being second best. You are capable of cultivating a more positive and confident relationship with yourself, and this will have a profound impact on your overall well-being and happiness.

And whenever you need to revisit this confident state, simply close your eyes, take a deep breath, and repeat the phrase ‘I am enough, I am worthy.’ Allow yourself to return to this sacred space, where you can access your inner strength, confidence, and self-acceptance.”

This script serves as a guide, and you can modify it to suit your personal style and the needs of your clients. Remember to always use a gentle, soothing tone and to provide a safe, non-judgmental space for your clients to explore their thoughts and emotions.