Understanding and Seeing You are Not the Feeling of Shame You are only Experiencing a Feeling of Shame with Hypnotherapy

You are not your feelings. You are the one who experiences them, and you have the power to choose how you respond to them. You can choose to observe your feelings with kindness, rather than judgment.

Here’s a sample hypnotherapy script to help someone understand and see that they are not the feeling of shame, but rather they are only experiencing a feeling of shame:

Introduction

(Soothing music starts playing. The hypnotherapist’s voice is calm and gentle.)

Hypnotherapist: “Welcome to this session, where you’ll learn to distinguish between yourself and the feelings you experience. Allow yourself to relax, breathe deeply, and let go of any tension. Imagine yourself in a peaceful place, where you feel safe and comfortable.”

Induction

Hypnotherapist: “Close your eyes and take a deep breath in through your nose, and out through your mouth. As you exhale, feel any stress or anxiety leave your body. Allow your eyelids to grow heavy, and your body to relax, starting from the crown of your head, down to your toes. With each breath, feel yourself becoming more relaxed, more calm, and more focused.”

Deepening

Hypnotherapist: “Imagine yourself descending a staircase, with each step taking you deeper into relaxation. As you reach the bottom, you find yourself in a peaceful, serene environment. Notice the sights, sounds, and sensations around you.

Allow yourself to fully immerse in this experience, letting go of any thoughts or worries.”

Therapeutic Suggestions

Hypnotherapist: “Now, bring to mind a situation where you felt ashamed. Perhaps it was a mistake you made, a failure, or a perceived shortcoming. Notice the feelings that arise in your body, the thoughts that come to mind, and the sensations that you experience.

As you reflect on this experience, remember that the feeling of shame is not who you are. It’s a feeling that you’re experiencing, a temporary state that will pass. Imagine yourself observing this feeling, rather than being consumed by it. See it as a cloud that’s floating by, rather than a part of your essential self.

Repeat the following phrases to yourself, allowing the meaning to sink deeply into your subconscious mind:

* ‘I am not my feelings, I am the one who experiences them.’

* ‘Shame is a feeling, it’s not who I am.’

* ‘I am separate from my emotions, I can observe them without being controlled by them.’

* ‘I am worthy of love, kindness, and compassion, regardless of my feelings or experiences.’

Visualization

Hypnotherapist: “Imagine yourself standing in front of a mirror. As you look into the mirror, you see a person who is flawed, imperfect, and human. You see a person who has made mistakes, and who will continue to make mistakes. But you also see a person who is strong, resilient, and capable of growth.

Notice the feelings of shame that may arise as you look at yourself. Imagine these feelings as a separate entity, a cloud that’s floating in front of the mirror. See this cloud as something that’s distinct from your true self, something that’s temporary and fleeting.

As you continue to breathe deeply, imagine this cloud beginning to dissipate, to fade away.

See yourself standing in front of the mirror, feeling more confident, more self-assured, and more compassionate towards yourself.

Remember, you are not your feelings. You are the one who experiences them, and you have the power to choose how you respond to them. You can choose to observe your feelings with kindness, rather than judgment. You can choose to treat yourself with the same love and compassion that you would offer to a friend.”

Reinforcement

Hypnotherapist: “As you continue to breathe deeply, repeat the following phrases to yourself, allowing the meaning to sink deeply into your subconscious mind:

* ‘I am separate from my feelings, and I can observe them without judgment.’

* ‘I am worthy of love, kindness, and compassion, regardless of my experiences.’

* ‘I trust in my ability to grow, to learn, and to evolve.’

* ‘I am enough, exactly as I am.’

Awakening

Hypnotherapist: “When you’re ready, slowly open your eyes. Take a deep breath in, and out, and notice how you feel.

Notice any shifts in your perspective, any increased sense of self-awareness or self-compassion. Remember that you can return to this peaceful, relaxed state whenever you need to, and that the suggestions made during this session will continue to guide you in your daily life.”

(Soothing music continues to play as the session comes to a close.)

This script is just a sample, and you can modify it to fit your specific needs and preferences. Remember to always use a gentle, calming tone and to tailor the script to the individual’s needs and goals. I hope this script helps you to understand and see that you are not the feeling of shame, but rather you are only experiencing a feeling of shame.