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Category: Mindfulness (Page 5 of 6)

Mindfulness

What is Mindfulness? – Put simply, mindfulness is awareness of the present moment and circumstances.

The concept of mindfulness is Buddhist in origin and can be defined in many different ways in modern society: for example, as a kind of mental attitude that one may adopt, or a set of techniques that can anchor a person’s consciousness in the present.

People think many thoughts at once and many of them are concerned with the past, or the future, or abstract things.

Being mindful means keeping your mind on the here and now. This can be very calming, allowing worries and regrets to be left alone, especially when it is the focus of meditation.

Mindfulness is currently frequently discussed in the media as a treatment for many things, including serious anxiety and depression, chronic pain, and feelings of being overwhelmed by modern life, stress relief.

However, being mindful is not always easy, and mindful meditation in particular needs regular practice to become effective.

How Mindfulness Became Fashionable

Jon Kabat-Zinn is an American molecular biologist who was introduced to Buddhism as a student and realized that the concept of mindfulness could have immense use in reducing stress.

He developed a course called Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction (MBSR) at the University of Massachusetts and become known worldwide after his first book, Full Catastrophe Living: Using the Wisdom of Your Body and Mind to Face Stress, Pain, and Illness (Delta, 1991), was published.

His programme famously included an exercise based on eating a raisin: a very simple task but performed with intense focus and concentration that puts all other thoughts aside.

How can I be ‘Mindful?’

One might choose to be mindful in daily life simply by paying attention to current tasks, but mindfulness is usually associated with doing so with a particular attitude of curiosity, openness and acceptance. That way you can be open to your actual experience, free of preconceptions and without being distracted by your reactions to it.

Mindfulness is at its most acute when one is focusing one’s mind entirely on it: such a state of mental focus being described as meditation. Meditation is sometimes described as ‘falling awake’ as a contrast to falling asleep.

Meditation can be classified as concentration mediation, where there is one particular focus, such as a sound, or as mindfulness meditation where the focus is on all aspects of the present moment.

However, complete awareness of the present is very often easier to achieve by paying particular attention to one aspect of it, at least initially, so the two kinds of meditation are intertwined.

The movement of breath into and out of the body is a very popular initial focus of attention in mindful meditation as it is always present and involves just enough bodily movement to keep one interested.

Some people prefer a repeated silent phrase (called a mantra), or a set of rhythmic, simple movements, or enjoy being guided through a meditation by verbal instructions and reminders from a teacher or an audio track. Many guided meditations are available online and there are also a number of apps that are readily available.

Many religions use meditative states as a tool, from the contemplations of Christian monks and nuns to the whirling dervishes found within parts of Islam. However, the practice of meditation can also be completely secular. Generally people sit quietly on an upright chair so that they are relaxed but alert, but you can meditate lying down, sitting on a bus or even walking.

What can Mindfulness be Helpful For?

The mental and physical state that mindfulness brings about can be helpful in treating many diseases since stress is a key factor in everything from heart disease to bipolar disorder.

Mindfulness also helps many people who are not ‘ill’ but feel that they could be living a happier and more meaningful life.

However, there are two particular conditions that mindfulness can have a particular impact upon:

1. Depression

When we are depressed, our negative thoughts and negative moods become intertwined.

We feel awful, we think we are a terrible person or that everything is going to be awful, and that makes our mood even worse. A downwards spiral is very easy to get into, especially if you have been depressed before, and we gain no pleasure from the things that usually cheer us up, and nor can we see anything in perspective.

Mindfulness helps to halt the escalation of the negative thoughts associated with depression and teaches us to focus on the present moment, rather than reliving the past or being concerned about the future.

Mindfulness can help us experience the world directly and without judgement. We may notice that we are feeling awful but we accept it, rather than trying to fight it, or let it worry us, and we do not panic. Hopefully, a depressed state can be avoided in this way or at the very least accepted: people with depression very often feel guilty or anxious about being depressed and that makes it worse.

These techniques are sometimes called Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy or MBCT.

2. Chronic Pain

People who are in chronic pain have got stuck there because their brain became attuned to pain during an original painful condition.

So, even though they are healed from a physical perspective, their brains are so well wired to feel pain that they take a lot of convincing that the body is not, in fact, under any threat.

Sufferers are usually trapped in a cycle where they have a good day, do too much, and then have a bad day or several of them, a process known as activity cycling.

The ‘re-wiring’ of the brain needed is usually done by the sufferer staying well within their limits and then gradually increasing their level of activity. Paradoxically, it is also very important to exercise the body gently so that the brain stops ‘being afraid’ of certain areas.

Sufferers usually attempt to hold a painful area rigidly so that it never moves, and the clenched muscles that result can just cause more pain!

Mindfulness means that the sufferer is firstly aware of their pain, and then accepts it, rather than worrying that they are hurting and not going to be able to do something later on.

It also means that suffers are aware when they need to rest and do not push themselves too hard, and thus avoid activity cycling. This process is not easy and chronic pain programmes generally do not result in a complete absence of pain.

However, sufferers generally find that they manage their pain much better and enjoy life far more as a result. Vidyamala Burch has written widely on this subject and her ‘Breathworks’ programmes, which rely heavily on mindfulness, have helped many thousands of people.

Many organizations, such as companies, hospitals and schools, are becoming aware that mindfulness training is of great help to their employees and their clients.

Try experiencing the many benefits of mindfulness for yourself by just taking a few quiet minutes to breathe slowly and notice little details around you.

The Power inside Non-Judgment is Mindfulness

When you practice mindfulness you then come from a place of non-judgment.

Rather than judging your thoughts and experiences as good or bad, right or wrong, hurtful or helpful, you simply observe the world around you with compassionate non-attachment.

Judgment is a thought that arises within awareness and left to its own devices, the brain will immediately begin assigning a label to thoughts and feelings.

“I’m feeling lonely. That’s bad. Loneliness makes me unlovable.”

“My friend hasn’t called me. She must not like me anymore.”

“That sales person didn’t speak to me. She is really rude.”

These assessments happen so instantaneously that our experiences are colored before we can even process them. Mindfulness is about being aware of that tendency and slowing down enough to take a fresh perspective.

It’s about bringing awareness and intentionally to the moments of our lives so we can pause to notice our feelings in a detached way. This allows us the space to reassess and see the world without our own filters.

Why Should I Practice Non-Judgmental Awareness?

You may wonder what the point of mindfulness is – why you should bother practicing awareness in the moment and why you need to observe what you are aware of without judgment.

Perhaps you see it as naive or ridiculous to avoid judging experiences that are unpleasant or negative. Loneliness does hurt. People do reject you. Salespeople can be rude.

But when you judge, you add another layer of suffering to painful events. I’m lonely, and now I feel bad about myself because I’m lonely. My friend didn’t call, and now I feel like a rejected loser because I think she doesn’t like me.

Also, when you layer judgment on top of experiences, you put a filter between yourself and the experience, watering it down and diverting your awareness from the moment.

This is true for positive and negative experiences. Once you start labeling the beautiful mountain you’re witnessing or the exquisite moment with your lover, you’ve lost part of the experience.

Does all of this make you feel like trying to twist yourself into a pretzel just to enjoy the moment?

Think about it this way: have you ever been so engaged in what you are doing that you get lost in it? Maybe it’s practicing the piano, working on a puzzle, or writing a blog post.

You aren’t thinking about whether or not the activity is good or bad, or whether you are doing it right or wrong, or when you need to have it finished. You are just doing it and enjoying the experience of doing it.

Jesus gave us the first sense of mindfulness. With mindfulness, you bring that same sense of aliveness and attentiveness to everything you do. Your thoughts aren’t wandering. You are just there – feeling it, being it, doing it, experiencing it with all of your senses and emotions.

With mindfulness you will experience this pure awareness affords an incredible sense of freedom, contentment, and inner peace. It liberates you to fully live your life.

Benefits of practicing non-judgment:

  • Promotes awareness and mindfulness
  • Cultivates more gratitude
  • Reduces stress and worry
  • Helps make wiser decisions
  • Boosts productivity
  • Fosters a peaceful mind
  • Increases authentic self-knowledge
  • Deepens expressions of love toward yourself and others

How to Stop Judging in Yoga and Meditation

In order to practice non-judgment, begin simply by recognizing judgmental thoughts or attitudes when they occur. Try labeling your judgments–positive, negative or neutral–for the next day (or even for the next hour or the next 15 minutes; you’ll be surprised by how often they surface!).

Attempt to release the emotions or opinions that you form based on these judgments. That is, practice equanimity toward each thought or situation. This isn’t the same as becoming numb or insensitive toward life, or as turning into an emotionless robot (our brains evaluate and judge for a reason!); it’s simply a practice in finding and maintaining a Sattvic state of mind.

Non-judgment in Meditation

Meditation and concentration practices are perfect settings to work with judgment, since we are already focusing on the present moment. Before your meditation, set an intention to not judge yourself for the thoughts, feelings and other distractions that will inevitably surface. Throughout your practice, instead of getting upset with the fact that you’re planning dinner, moving a tingly foot or thinking when you’re not supposed to be thinking, accept each sensation as part of the meditation process and remember that there is no such thing as a bad meditation.

Although we commonly dwell on negative judgments more than others, the same goes for positive or neutral situations. For example, if you see colors or feel waves of bliss during meditation, instead of getting excited, recognize that “good meditation” is a judgment too. Then come back to your breath.

Non-judgment in Asana

We often don’t realize how frequently we judge ourselves during a yoga practice. Next time you feel like you’re “good” or “bad” at a yoga pose, realize that these qualities are not inherent in asana. Maintaining a steady tree pose is not better than falling out of a tree pose, just as a tree in nature is no better or worse if it’s blowing in the wind; they’re simply different states of being. Similarly, stop judging yourself against others! Since our bodies are completely unique, each of us has different needs and abilities in a physical practice.

By not judging ourselves, we see that asana practice is simply about breathing through each pose and noticing how our bodies, minds, and states of being flow from practice to practice or throughout a practice. Without the veil of judgment, we create clarity to practice self-observation and self-reflection in each new moment.

Cultivating Compassion

To embrace a non-judgmental attitude, it is helpful to practice compassion towards yourself and aspects of life that you judge. The Buddhist technique of meditating on Metta, or loving-kindness, can assist in finding a non-judgmental love toward the good, the neutral and yes, the bad too.

Like all practices, not letting judgment consume our lives takes time and effort. However, the more we practice not judging in yoga, the more we’ll be able to practice in other aspects of lives. Likewise, the more we practice not judging ourselves, the more likely we are to not judge others. When we are able to appreciate everything as it is, we form a clear and balanced environment for our minds and hearts, and a larger sense of belonging in that which surrounds us. By recognizing judgmental thoughts and not to attaching to judgments, we foster acceptance and harmony in our lives, both on and off the yoga mat.

How much of what passes through your mind comes along with a strong opinion of right or wrong, or good or bad? How could detaching from judgments affect your life and the lives of others?

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