Note: EFT tapping is a self-regulation tool and not a substitute for trauma therapy. The wording should be adapted to the person’s actual experience and emotional intensity.


Case Study 00434 – EFT Tapping Script

Issue Focus

  • Identity confusion
  • Emotional hiding / lack of personal transparency
  • Fearful-avoidant attachment
  • Mental confusion and memory stress
  • Insecurity and self-doubt
  • Hopelessness about the future
  • Relationship pain
  • Grief and unresolved emotional loss

Step 1 – Assess Intensity

Before tapping, ask:

“On a scale of 0–10, how intense does this feel right now?”

(0 = no distress, 10 = overwhelming)


Step 2 – Setup Statement (Karate Chop Point)

(Tap the side of the hand)

Repeat 3 times:

Even though I feel confused, disconnected, insecure, and emotionally overwhelmed, I deeply and completely accept myself right now.

Even though part of me hides, fears closeness, feels lost, and carries pain from relationships and grief, I choose to begin healing.

Even though I feel unsure of myself, afraid of the future, and burdened by emotional pain, I allow myself to be open to peace and healing.


Step 3 – EFT Tapping Sequence

Tap gently on each point while saying the phrases.


Eyebrow (EB)

I feel confused and emotionally overwhelmed.

Side of Eye (SE)

Part of me feels lost and disconnected from myself.

Under Eye (UE)

I carry insecurity and fear inside.

Under Nose (UN)

I don’t always know how to express what I really feel.

Chin (CH)

Part of me hides because it feels safer.

Collarbone (CB)

I fear getting close and I fear being hurt.

Under Arm (UA)

I carry pain from relationships and emotional loss.

Top of Head (TH)

Some part of me feels stuck, confused, and afraid.


Step 4 – Second Round (Deeper Emotional Recognition)

Eyebrow

I feel like I have lost parts of myself.

Side of Eye

I carry grief, pain, and emotional wounds.

Under Eye

I fear rejection, abandonment, or being misunderstood.

Under Nose

Sometimes I don’t trust closeness.

Chin

Sometimes I pull away to protect myself.

Collarbone

I carry memories, pain, and emotional confusion.

Under Arm

Part of me feels uncertain about the future.

Top of Head

I feel tired of carrying this emotional burden.


Step 5 – Releasing & Reframing Round

Eyebrow

Maybe I can begin to release some of this pain.

Side of Eye

Maybe I do not have to stay stuck in fear.

Under Eye

Maybe I can reconnect with myself.

Under Nose

Maybe it is safe to feel my truth.

Chin

Maybe I can heal relationship wounds at my own pace.

Collarbone

Maybe I can release some grief without losing love.

Under Arm

Maybe my future is not over.

Top of Head

Maybe healing is possible for me.


Step 6 – Positive Integration Round

Eyebrow

I am learning to understand myself.

Side of Eye

I can become more emotionally honest.

Under Eye

I can build safety within myself.

Under Nose

I do not have to hide forever.

Chin

I can heal relationship pain.

Collarbone

I can grieve and still move forward.

Under Arm

I can create a future with hope.

Top of Head

I choose healing, clarity, peace, and emotional freedom.


Step 7 – Closing Breath

Take a slow breath and repeat:

I honor what I have been carrying.
I release what I can today.
I choose peace, healing, and self-compassion one step at a time.


Post-Tapping Reflection Questions

After tapping, ask:

  1. What intensity number is it now (0–10)?
  2. What emotion feels strongest now?
  3. Did any memories, images, or body sensations arise?
  4. What does the hurting part of me need right now?
  5. What small act of self-care would support me today?

This script can be adapted into short daily EFT sessions, guided therapy sessions, or combined with hypnotherapy and journaling work for deeper emotional processing.