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Category: Your Mind (Page 3 of 12)

Renew your Mind by reading the Tao Te Ching by Lao Tzu or Laozi

The Tao Te Ching, also known as Lao Tzu or Laozi, is a Chinese classic text traditionally credited to the 6th-century BC sage Laozi.

Tao Te Ching translates very roughly as “the way of integrity”. In its 81 verses it delivers a treatise on how to live in the world with goodness and integrity: an important kind of wisdom in a world where many people believe such a thing to be impossible.

Tao Te Ching (Chinese: 道德經 [ Listen (help. · info)]) is the Chinese name of a book by a man named Laozi (or Lao Tzu, which literally means “old master”). Laozi was a sage (a wise man) and he was a record-keeper. The title can mean “The Book of the Way and its Virtue.”

Laozi, also rendered as Lao Tzu and Lao-Tze, was an ancient Chinese philosopher and writer. He is the reputed author of the Tao Te Ching, the founder of philosophical Taoism, and a deity in religious Taoism and traditional Chinese religions.

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Chinese philosophy to signify the fundamental or true nature of the world: simplicity and selflessness in conformity with the Tao, leading a life of non-purposive action, a life expressing the essence of spontaneity.. Taoism, also known as Daoism, arose about the same time as Confucianism.

In a modern world that never sleeps, anyone could benefit from the simplicity found in Daoism. This way of thought goes beyond just an esoteric ancient Chinese philosophy, and anybody can grasp some of its key concepts with a few quotes from one of Daoism’s most important books, the Dao De Jing. This wisdom lays a simple framework for achieving harmony, making life a little bit easier.

But first, what is Daoism anyway?

Daoism, sometimes spelled Taoism, comes from Ancient China and the writings of philosophers like Laozi, who lived during the 5th or 4th century BCE. This philosophy, which some consider a religion, teaches how to live in harmony with the world. The word, dao, itself means “the way”, the pattern and substance of everything that exists.

In his most famous collection of teachings, the Dao De Jing, Laozi explains how to act in accordance with the alternating cycles of nature, in other words: a person needs to “go with the flow”. Looking at a few important quotes from the work reveals deep wisdom on how to better navigate life.

1. SIMPLICITY, PATIENCE, COMPASSION
“Simplicity, patience, compassion. These three are your greatest treasures. Simple in actions and thoughts, you return to the source of being. Patient with both friends and enemies, you accord with the way things are. Compassionate toward yourself, you reconcile all beings in the world.”

WHAT DOES IT TEACH: Life can get complicated quite easily, but sometimes all we need to do is get back to the basics. When feeling overwhelmed, these guidelines present essential rules in how to manage actions, relationships, and self-worth in a few, concise sentences.

2. GOING WITH THE FLOW
“When nothing is done, nothing is left undone.”

WHAT DOES IT TEACH: This quote explains the concept of wu wei, uncontrived action or natural non-intervention. In life, rather than fighting against the conditions in our lives, we can allow things to take their natural course. This can also mean that when you don’t know what to do, do nothing. Instead, only jump at opportunities when you feel ready.

3. LETTING GO
“If you realize that all things change, there is nothing you will try to hold on to. If you are not afraid of dying, there is nothing you cannot achieve.”

WHAT DOES IT TEACH: Many Eastern philosophies remind us of the only true constants in life, change and death. While not an easy thing to do, accepting these facts of life can release you from as much suffering and bring freedom in life. We must remember to let go, and allow life to take its course.

4. HARMONY
“Tao engenders One; One engenders Two; Two engenders Three; Three engenders all things. All things carry the yin (femininity) while embrace the yang (masculinity). Neutralising energy brings them into harmony.”

WHAT DOES IT TEACH: The Chinese concept of yin and yang describes nature in daulities with two opposite, complementary, and interdependent forces. In other words, two halves balancing together that make a whole. Yin and yang always flows and changes with time. One aspect increases as the other decreases, and this balance continues as a pattern in nature. The night becomes the day. The sky meets the earth.

Examining and understanding these patterns in ourselves and around us brings more balance in life. For example, a person that becomes too rigid may break under pressure. Instead, they should become softer and more flexible to restore the balance of yin to yang.

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Ref:. www.goodnet.org, www.goodreads.com and www.famousphilosophers.org

Stopping Negative Thoughts

Negative thoughts can contribute to anxiety, stress and depression as well as a host of other issues that are all based in shame, fear and guilt.

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If not dealt with, they can fester in the mind and exacerbate the various difficulties in our daily lives. The vast majority of us have had them at some stage. They hold us back from achieving our full potential.

It is important to realize that we are able to stop these negative thoughts in their tracks, that we can take control and dictate our own thought patterns.

To do this, we can implement a basic strategy called the Five R’s:

  • Recognize
  • Refuse
  • Relax
  • Re-frame
  • Resume

The first part is to recognize that you are having a negative thought. Ideally we can see the thought forming and recognize what it is before it fully forms and begins to affect us. This first step will allow us to take control of the thought and deal with it as we see fit.

Secondly, we have to refuse to allow the thought to continue. This can be difficult to do. A good way is to visualize a STOP sign in our minds and place this in front of the negative thought. If we can do this, then we disrupt the negative thought process and shift our focus elsewhere.

Dealing with this negative thought can increase our stress or anxiety levels. Now having diverted our attention from the negativity, we need to relax again. For a lot of people this may be achieved by taking a few controlled, deep breaths. For others, it may be visualizing a happy place. The important thing is that we are diverting our attention from the negative thought and relaxing ourselves.

Fourthly, we want to re-frame our thought pattern to something consistent with our best performance. We want to replace the negative thought with a positive thought that will give us the confidence to complete the task or return to a positive mental attitude. It is wise to ‘see’ and ‘feel’ the performance that you want to achieve.

Lastly, we resume our activity or task with a renewed sense of control and confidence. Go back to what you were doing before the negative thought began. What you do and how you do it are now 100% within your control.

Negative thoughts affect us all, but we all have the ability to control the negative thoughts.

The next time you feel one coming on, use these five steps to take control. With effective implementation, it can bring about powerful results.

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Ref:. www.bathavenuecounselling.ie and www.verywellmind.com

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