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Root Chakra Healing

Root Chakra Healing, Healing the Muladhara Chakra

Root Chakra (Muladhara): This chakra is associated with your sense of security, stability, and feeling grounded.

Root chakra healing fosters proper energy flow throughout the body giving the chakra system a firm foundation on which the other energy centers may function. When the first chakra is blocked or somehow off balance, it is not uncommon to exhibit uncharacteristic behaviors, like paranoia, being short-tempered or aggressive.

Root Chakra Healing Meditation

In this article, we’ll explore the essentials of root chakra healing, including why it’s important, the symptoms it addresses, and key steps for deep healing, all backed by helpful tips and references.

Understanding The Root Chakra

The root chakra is sometimes referred to as the Muladhara chakra – for its feminine energy. Known as the seat for raw energy, known as Kundalini, the Muladhara chakra is the first of seven chakras located at the base of the spine.

It governs the functioning of the lower part of the body, including the bladder, kidneys, lower spine and back. Psychologically, it governs confidence and survival instincts, like “fight or flight.”

Red is the widely accepted chakra color associated with the root chakra. According to energy healers, the root chakra may also be associated with the colors brown, black, and gray.

Why Healing The Root Chakra?

When the root chakra is functioning optimally, you feel grounded, secure, and at ease with the world. But when it is imbalanced or blocked several signs can manifest, from constipation to back pain and fatigue.

Additional physical and psychological signs can include:

Feelings of insecurity
Aggressiveness
Sexual dysfunction
Anger
Restlessness
Eating disorders

Root Chakra Healing Cheat Sheet

Common Symptoms Addressed By Root Chakra Healing

1. Being constantly challenged in getting your primary needs met

Having enough money to get food or pay this month’s bills, having stable housing… If getting these basic needs met is a constant struggle for you, chances are that your root chakra will benefit from healing work. Root chakra healing focuses on getting you out of the detrimental cycle of behaviors and beliefs dominated by lack and scarcity.

2. Looming feelings of insecurity

If your first chakra is out of balance, you will notice that it is hard for you to feel safe in the world. This feeling of insecurity can manifest through constant worries about finances, health, where the world is going. You might even feel paranoid about every little thing.

We’re not talking about transitory concerns associated with circumstances that deserve your immediate attention, so you can address the issue at hand effectively. First chakra concerns are more deeply rooted in your psyche and tend to persist over time, acting as a lingering feeling of insecurity.

Root chakra healing consists in remedying these fears by allowing more supportive energy to come into your life and providing a solid foundation on which you can rest.

3. Fear is your main motivating factor

If you notice that your life is based on fear, root chakra healing could help. It aims at bringing a more balanced perspective, so your decision-making is more well-rounded and not based exclusively on survival instinct or “fight or flight” responses.

First chakra preoccupations regarding survival can often spin out of control when your support system and resources are not strong enough. By working at reinforcing your foundations and rooting yourself in stronger perceptions of safety, your can gain a greater awareness of your real needs and aspirations, and what needs to be done in order to fulfill them.

Root Chakra Healing

Key steps for in-depth healing of the root chakra

1. Anchoring yourself in your environment

Root chakra preoccupations relate to feeling safe in the world. Developing a harmonious relationship with your environment is key in fostering safety. How you feel in your immediate surroundings, from your home to your neighborhood and region matters in supporting the first chakra balance.

2. Connecting intimately with the earth

In order to heal root chakra imbalance, it’s important to connect directly to the earth. Go outside and walk on unpaved paths, dig your hands in the earth, plant seeds… These are all examples of personal connections with the earth element that will support the opening of the root chakra to a more grounded, sustainable energy flow.

If you do not have access to garden, walking outside to a park and pay attention to every step you make, feeling the contact of your feet to the ground. Make it a daily practice. The presence of plants in your immediate surrounding can also be helpful to bring the earth closer to you. Another way to connect with this elemental energy is to imagine grounding yourself deep into the earth by visualizing a grounding cord made a burgundy red light, uniting your root chakra to the center of the earth.

3. Physical activity promotes root chakra health

Let’s face it, the root chakra governs the quality of our physical presence and feeling of aliveness in our body. Physical activity, no matter big or small, supports root chakra healing. Any movement involving your feet and legs will be particularly helpful. When you feel your vital force, you connect with the strength of root chakra energy and grounded in your life.

4. Overcoming feelings of insecurity by learning self-reliance

To counter the tendency to worry about safety and well-being, an element characteristic of first chakra imbalance, long-lasting healing consists in reinforcing your belief that you’re OK in this world and can get what you need when you need it. Working on self-reliance, confidence, perceptions about resourcefulness in your life are key in healing the root chakra.

5. Discovering your true needs and aspirations

To heal the first chakra, you need to know what your true needs and aspirations are. This generally helps guide your course of action and decisions with regards to the place you want to live in, the work you want to do, and the people you want to surround yourself with. Without this awareness, you have more chances to be swayed by others’ opinions or circumstances, and miss the opportunity to meet your deepest needs.

Introspection and clarity are therefore keys to healing the root chakra. This is no small task, but with some time given to personal reflection and friendly advice, you will get in the right direction. Pay attention to limiting beliefs about yourself, and trust possibilities towards a better life.

6. Going from a psychology of scarcity to personal abundance

Remember that a psychology of lack and scarcity tends to self-perpetuate and reinforces limiting beliefs about your chances of success. Healing your root chakra aims at restoring confidence in your ability to provide for yourself and meet your basic needs easily.

An important step in healing root chakra concerns is to re-center the notion of material abundance on inner and non-material abundance. For instance, instead of assessing your level of wealth just base on your bank account, consider all the other types of riches you have in your life, from friendships to enjoyment of everyday pleasures. In the process, you will like have to reconsider personal beliefs about money and physical safety.

7. The root chakra and embodying the energy of manifestation

When healing the root chakra, it’s important to remember that the outer world is often a reflection of what is happening inside you. Your notion about what it means to be abundant in the material world is affected and affects your notion of inner balance and resourcefulness. In other words, your state of being translates into your ability to manifest in the material world.

How To Heal Your Root Chakra

Several steps may be taken to heal an imbalance or blockage in the root chakra. Depending on the severity of the blockage, you may opt to use chakra healing meditation, yoga poses, or even a variety of forms of energy healing, from reiki to acupuncture and sound therapy — such as the use of chakra tuning forks.

Aromatherapy For The First Chakra

Aromatherapy is another useful tool for first chakra balancing.

To heal the root chakra, consider using flowering, earthy-scented essential oils to ground and balance, including;

ylang-ylang
rosemary
patchouli
sandalwood
myrrh
rosemary

When exploring every day steps you can take to restore balance to your chakra system, consider adding healing food to your diet.

Root Chakra Healing Foods

Just as each chakra has its own vibrational frequency, color, and function, so too are there foods that help bolster individual chakra function.

When concentrating on the root chakra, consider adding naturally red-colored foods, root vegetables, and animal protein such as:

parsnips
soy
tofu
eggs
beans
meat
rainbow chard
beets

Root Chakra Healing Stones

The use of chakra crystals and healing stones for chakra cleansing is also common.

Healing stones’ vibrational frequencies can help restore balance when there is a deficiency or excess of energy leading to a blocked or overactive root chakra. Like the chakras, each stone has its own frequency.

Although it is common practice to choose stones of the same color as their corresponding chakra, it isn’t always necessary — shades of the same color will also work. The key is that the stone has the same vibrational frequency as its associated chakra.

When choosing red stones to heal the root chakra, some choices are red jasper, bloodstone, red carnelian, and garnet. Other options for stones include:

Hematite
Rhodochrosite
Jet
Smokey quartz

Useful questions to guide first chakra healing

Do you feel you have all you need to live comfortably?
How are you doing financially? Are you constantly struggling or do you have strong foundations?
How are your current living conditions? Do you feel supported enough?
Do you feel connected to the natural environment around you?
Do you feel threatened by looming fears about the end of the world? Or do you trust that no matter what happens, you and your family will be OK?
How resourceful do you feel when you meet life challenges (whether they are financial, health-related, job-related, etc.)?
Do you find yourself in situations that others deemed right for you, but do not truly meet your deepest needs and aspirations?
Do you feel you have enough support where you live?
Are your roots strong enough to support you wherever you are?

Assertiveness Tool-set

Being assertive means being able to stand up for your own or other people’s rights in a calm and positive way, without being either aggressive, or passively accepting ‘wrong’.

Assertive individuals are able to get their point across without upsetting others, or becoming upset themselves.

Although everyone acts in passive and aggressive ways from time to time, such ways of responding often result from a lack of self-confidence and are, therefore, inappropriate ways of interacting with others.

What is Assertiveness?

The Concise Oxford Dictionary defines assertiveness as:

“Forthright, positive, insistence on the recognition of one’s rights”

In other words:

Assertiveness means standing up for your personal rights – expressing thoughts, feelings and beliefs in direct, honest and appropriate ways.

It is important to note also that:

By being assertive we should always respect the thoughts, feelings and beliefs of other people.

Those who behave assertively always respect the thoughts, feelings and beliefs of other people as well as their own.

Assertiveness concerns being able to express feelings, wishes, wants and desires appropriately and is an important personal and interpersonal skill. In all your interactions with other people, whether at home or at work, with employers, customers or colleagues, assertiveness can help you to express yourself in a clear, open and reasonable way, without undermining your own or others’ rights.

Assertiveness enables individuals to act in their own best interests, to stand up for themselves without undue anxiety, to express honest feelings comfortably and to express personal rights without denying the rights of others.

Passive, Aggressive and Assertive

Assertiveness is often seen as the balance point between passive and aggressive behaviour, but it’s probably easier to think of the three as points of a triangle.

Being Assertive

Being assertive involves taking into consideration your own and other people’s rights, wishes, wants, needs and desires.

Assertiveness means encouraging others to be open and honest about their views, wishes and feelings, so that both parties act appropriately.

Assertive behaviour includes:

  • Being open in expressing wishes, thoughts and feelings and encouraging others to do likewise. See our page on Managing Emotions.
  • Listening to the views of others and responding appropriately, whether in agreement with those views or not. See our page on Active Listening.
  • Accepting responsibilities and being able to delegate to others. See our page on Delegation Skills for more.
    Regularly expressing appreciation of others for what they have done or are doing. See our page on Gratitude and Being Grateful.
    Being able to admit to mistakes and apologize.
  • Maintaining self-control. See our page on Self-Control for more.
  • Behaving as an equal to others. See our page on Justice and Fairness to explore further.

Some people may struggle to behave assertively for a number of reasons, and find that they behave either aggressively or passively instead.

For more about this, and about how to behave with such people, see our pages on Why People are not Assertive and Dealing with Non-Assertiveness.

Being Passive

Responding in a passive or non-assertive way tends to mean compliance with the wishes of others and can undermine individual rights and self-confidence.

Many people adopt a passive response because they have a strong need to be liked by others. Such people do not regard themselves as equals because they place greater weight on the rights, wishes and feelings of others. Being passive results in failure to communicate thoughts or feelings and results in people doing things they really do not want to do in the hope that they might please others. This also means that they allow others to take responsibility, to lead and make decisions for them.

A classic passive response is offered by those who say ‘yes’ to requests when they actually want to say ‘no’.

For example:

“Do you think you can find the time to wash the car today?”

A typical passive reply might be:

“Yes, I’ll do it after I’ve done the shopping, made an important telephone call, finished the filing, cleaned the windows and made lunch for the kids!”

A far more appropriate response would have been:

“No, I can’t do it today as I’ve got lots of other things I need to do.”

The person responding passively really does not have the time, but their answer does not convey this message. The second response is assertive as the person has considered the implications of the request in the light of the other tasks they have to do.

Assertiveness is equally important at work as at home.

If you become known as a person who cannot say no, you will be loaded up with tasks by your colleagues and managers, and you could even make yourself ill.

When you respond passively, you present yourself in a less positive light or put yourself down in some way. If you constantly belittle yourself in this way, you will come to feel inferior to others. While the underlying causes of passive behaviour are often poor self-confidence and self-esteem, in itself it can further reduce feelings of self-worth, creating a vicious circle.

See our pages on Building Confidence and What is Self-Esteem? for more information.

Being Aggressive

By being aggressive towards someone else, their rights and self-esteem are undermined.

Aggressive behaviour fails to consider the views or feelings of other individuals. Those behaving aggressively will rarely show praise or appreciation of others and an aggressive response tends to put others down. Aggressive responses encourage the other person to respond in a non-assertive way, either aggressively or passively.

There is a wide range of aggressive behaviours, including rushing someone unnecessarily, telling rather than asking, ignoring someone, or not considering another’s feelings.

Good interpersonal skills mean you need to be aware of the different ways of communicating and the different response each approach might provoke. The use of either passive or aggressive behaviour in interpersonal relationships can have undesirable consequences for those you are communicating with and it may well hinder positive moves forward.

It can be a frightening or distressing experience to be spoken to aggressively and the receiver can be left wondering what instigated such behaviour or what he or she has done to deserve the aggression.

If thoughts and feelings are not stated clearly, this can lead to individuals manipulating others into meeting their wishes and desires. Manipulation can be seen as a covert form of aggression whilst humour can also be used aggressively.

Different Situations Call for Different Measures

– or do they?

You may find that you respond differently – whether passively, assertively or aggressively – when you are communicating in different situations.

It is important to remember that any interaction is always a two-way process and therefore your reactions may differ, depending upon your relationship with the other person in the communication.

You may for example find it easier to be assertive to your partner than to your boss or vice versa. However, whether it is easy or not, an assertive response is always going to be better for you and for your relationship with the other person.

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