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Activate The Four Agreements and rapidly transform your new life to one of freedom, true happiness, and love with Hypnotherapy

The Four Agreements. Remember that these principles are not just guidelines, but a way of living that can transform your life and relationships. You have the power to choose how you respond to situations, and you are committed to being impeccable with your word, not taking anything personally, not making assumptions, and always doing your best.

The Four Agreements Hypnotherapy Script

Introduction:

Welcome to this hypnotherapy session, where you’ll embark on a journey of self-discovery and transformation. Inspired by the wisdom of Don Miguel Ruiz’s “The Four Agreements,” you’ll learn to let go of limitations and embrace a life of freedom, true happiness, and love. Allow yourself to relax, breathe deeply, and let the words guide you into a profound state of inner peace.

Induction:

Close your eyes, and take a deep breath in through your nose and out through your mouth. Feel the air fill your lungs, and then release any tension or stress. Imagine yourself in a peaceful, serene environment, where you feel completely relaxed and safe. With each breath, allow yourself to let go of any fear, thoughts or worries, and simply focus on the present moment.

Agreement 1: Be Impeccable with Your Word

Imagine a bright, warm light beginning to fill your body, starting at the crown of your head and flowing down to your toes. As this light fills you, repeat the following phrase to yourself: “I am impeccable with my word.” Allow the truth of these words to sink deeply into your mind and heart. You are a being of integrity, and your word is your bond. You communicate honestly, kindly, and respectfully, always considering the impact of your words on others. Repeat: “I am impeccable with my word.”

Deepening:

As you continue to breathe deeply, imagine this light expanding, filling any areas where you may have felt uncertain or dishonest in the past. Allow the warmth of this light to heal and transform those areas, filling you with a sense of clarity and purpose. You are committed to being truthful and authentic in all your interactions, always speaking from a place of love and respect.

Agreement 2: Don’t Take Anything Personally

Now, imagine a gentle, soothing breeze beginning to caress your body, calming any areas of tension or emotional reactivity. As you breathe in, repeat the following phrase: “I don’t take anything personally.” Allow the wisdom of these words to settle into your being, reminding you that others’ opinions and behaviours are a reflection of their own experiences and perspectives, not yours. You are not defined by external validation or criticism. You are a unique, worthy, and deserving individual, exactly as you are. Repeat: “I don’t take anything personally.”

Deepening:

As you continue to breathe deeply, imagine this soothing breeze wrapping around you, shielding you from any negative or toxic energy. You are protected, safe, and free to respond to situations from a place of inner peace and wisdom. You recognize that others’ words and actions are not a reflection of your worth, and you choose to maintain your emotional balance and well-being.

Agreement 3: Don’t Make Assumptions

Imagine a brilliant, radiant sun beginning to shine within you, illuminating any areas of uncertainty or misunderstanding. As you breathe in, repeat the following phrase: “I don’t make assumptions.” Allow the clarity of these words to awaken your mind, reminding you to seek understanding and ask questions rather than jumping to conclusions. You are curious, open-minded, and willing to learn, always seeking to see things from other perspectives. Repeat: “I don’t make assumptions.”

Deepening:

As you continue to breathe deeply, imagine this radiant sun expanding, filling any areas where you may have felt confused or misguided in the past. Allow the light of understanding to guide you, revealing new insights and perspectives. You are committed to seeking truth and clarity, always questioning your assumptions and seeking to learn from others.

Agreement 4: Always Do Your Best

Imagine a powerful, uplifting energy beginning to emanate from within you, filling you with a sense of purpose and determination. As you breathe in, repeat the following phrase: “I always do my best.” Allow the confidence of these words to empower you, reminding you that your best is always enough. You are a capable, talented, and unique individual, and you trust in your abilities to navigate life’s challenges. Repeat: “I always do my best.”

Deepening:

As you continue to breathe deeply, imagine this energy amplifying, filling any areas where you may have felt uncertain or self-doubting in the past. Allow the conviction of your own inner strength to guide you, reminding you that you are always doing the best you can with the resources you have. You trust in yourself, your abilities, and the universe, knowing that everything is working in your favour.

Conclusion:

As you come to the end of this hypnotherapy session, take a moment to reflect on the wisdom of The Four Agreements. Remember that these principles are not just guidelines, but a way of living that can transform your life and relationships.

You have the power to choose how you respond to situations, and you are committed to being impeccable with your word, not taking anything personally, not making assumptions, and always doing your best.

Take a deep breath in, and embody The Four Agreements in your daily life.

Integration and Awakening

“Now, take a deep breath in, and as you exhale, imagine that you are integrating all of the freedom, true happiness, and love that you’ve received. You are bringing it into your daily life, and you are allowing it to guide you.

As you slowly open your eyes, take with you the feeling of freedom, happiness, and love. Remember that you are deserving of all of these things, and that they are always available to you.

Take one final, deep breath in, and when you’re ready, return to the present moment, feeling refreshed, renewed, and inspired.”

Here is the complete list:

Identifying Your Core Values

Your Personal values are the general expression of what is most important for you. A value expresses the worth of something, and in this case what you categorical like and dislike.

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We will focus on Cognitive Behavioural Therapy.

(CBT) is a short-term, goal-oriented psychotherapy treatment that takes a hands-on, practical approach to problem-solving. We will focus on how emotions, thoughts, and behaviors all influence each other according to CBT. All humans’ core beliefs can be summed up in three categories: self, others, future.

So they are like categories for all your preferences in life. Values are formed starting in early childhood and are later consciously re-evaluated and can therefore be changed.

By comparing two values you can discover which is representing something that is more important than the other. Therefore you rate the one value over the other.

Personal values are generally operating in the background. They influence everything what you do but usually it happens on auto-pilot. You just know intuitively what you like and dislike and decide accordingly.

Why is it Good to Know Your Personal Values?

The answer is twofold:

First you get clarity and build your self-awareness by identifying your values and secondly knowing your highest values can act like a guide for you. It makes intelligent decisions easier. Also knowing your negative values, those from which you try to keep away from, is very helpful as well. When you are clearly aware of your value hierarchy you can consciously check situations against your value-system, which will create better decisions and results. It will be easier to keep your balance in life.

For instance when you are about to make an important decision you can double-check if going the one or the other way would go against one of your core values. On the long run, that would pose a problem for you.

So all in all it’s an awareness building process which can give you direction in life.

When choosing your personal core values it is important to think about the criteria that you will use to make your selection. Since your personal values decision will have multiple answers, your criteria will also help you to prioritize and limit your list. Using our decision making model, you will want to look at other connected decisions for goals/source requirements that will influence your criteria. If you have already made decisions for a personal vision, mission statement, and/or core beliefs, you should see goals/source requirements that will influence the criteria for this decision.

With your connected decisions in mind, here are some criteria that might help in selecting your personal core values.

  • Consistent with my personal vision, mission, and core beliefs – In addition to specific goals/source requirements, you can use this criteria as a way to eliminate personal values that are inconsistent with your other decisions.
  • Inspirational – Personal values should encourage you to fulfill your purpose in life. Great personal values, read every day, will provide an uplift and motivation to take on the day’s challenges.
  • Unique – Your values need to speak to you. Don’t hesitate to use values learned from others, but your core values should help define who you are and want to be. They should reflect the priorities for your life and will tend to emphasize your strengths while compensating for your weaknesses.
  • Provides guidance – Personal core values should help you in your everyday decisions, particularly with relationships.
  • Long lasting – This is about creating your future. Expect that your values will evolve as you grow, mature and gain life experience. However, this is not about following the latest fad. If you expect a personal core value to change next week, it likely isn’t very core.
  • Meaningful and rewarding – Values provide the measures that help us live meaningful lives that fulfill our given purpose. Living a life of meaning brings us joy.

A List of Core Values

There are a lot of value lists out there, so here are just the real core values that most people have and that differentiate a character the most. I tried to keep the list tight and avoid repetition by synonyms:

Abundance Accountability Achievement Action
Adventure Ambition Awareness Balance
Beauty Being the Best Calmness Cheerfulness
Clarity Comfort Compassion Competition
Connection Contribution Control Courage
Creativity Curiosity Determination Discipline
Effectiveness Empathy Energy Enthusiasm
Excellence Fairness Faith Fame
Family Flexibility Freedom Friendship
Fulfillment Fun Harmony Happiness
Health Honesty Honor Humility
Independence Integrity Intelligence Intimacy
Inspiration Kindness Knowledge Liveliness
Love Money Nature Passion
Peace Perfection Persistence Philanthropy
Power Respect Security Simplicity
Significance Spirituality Spontaneity Strength
Stability Success Status Teamwork
Tolerance Tradition Truth Vitality
Wealth Wisdom

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Create Your Value Hierarchy

In order to create your 10 top-values do the following:

  1. Select the 10 values from the list above that you like most. (of course you can also do a Top 5 or Top 3)
  2. Start with the first in the list. Then order this by importance by comparing two values by asking: “Which one is more important to me if I had could only have one and had to compromise the second?” Remove the winner and write it on top of a new list and then continue with the remaining 6 on the old list and so on.
  3. Do this for all 10 until you have an ordered list of your top 10 values.

Here are my top 10 personal values:

  1. Truth
  2. Integrity
  3. Contribution
  4. Love
  5. Inspiration
  6. Family
  7. Fulfillment
  8. Health
  9. Creativity
  10. Success

Your value hierarchy expresses your character of course. Someone who values adventure highly is a different character as someone who values stability more. Someone who values success highly is different than someone who values family on top.

An interesting exercise is also to create your top 10 negative values, which express what you really dislike or what is totally unimportant to you.

Are Values Fixed or Can I Change Them?

By there very nature, your value-system tend to be more stable, it is your character in it’s many facettes. But single values are not static and fixed. They can change. Personal values usually change when something big happens, or when you are consciously re-evaluating your life and make a decision, based on your experiences, to change your value hierarchy.

As an example I valued diversity a lot in my first business. Later I learned by experience all the drawbacks of doing a lot at a time and now I value simplicity more.

So what when you are dissatisfied with a value you have and what to change it?

For instance you may have the top value of stability and you want to become a bit more flexible in your life. (could be the other way around as well) Changing this would work if you create experiences and enjoy them that are in alignment with the new value: flexibility in this example.

So to integrate a new value into your top-values:

  1. Create positive experiences that express this value in your life
  2. Decrease experiences that are aligned with the opposite value in your life
  3. Also working on your beliefs will make it easier to adapt to new values.

Please break your list down to TOP 5 and then to TOP 3 personal values.

What are your TOP 3 personal values?

This is my TOP 3 personal values:

  1. Integrity
  2. Truth
  3. Love

No person likes making mistakes. Having well defined personal core values helps us avoid making choices that work against who we want to be. Our values become a clear set of guidelines for our words and actions, consistently moving us in the direction aligned with our core beliefs and personal vision. Our life becomes one of our choosing, not one that is directed by the decisions of others. Our values help us build and maintain our identity as unique individuals.

Choosing and knowing your values can provide a number of benefits that include:

  • Reducing stress
  • Making better decisions
  • Finding environments and people that support your aspirations
  • Increasing joy and happiness
  • Supporting your growth and development
  • Helping in times of conflict or confusion
  • Growing contribution and value
  • Providing motivation

Knowing it or not, choosing it or not, all of us have a set of personal core values. Prevent discontent, conflict, frustration and lack of fulfillment by choosing consciously the values by which you want to live.


Now do the limpness test: Ask yourself the four following questions?

  1. Would you sacrifice any of theses vales for a million rand?
  2. Have you lost any of theses core values in times of stress?
  3. In 20 years would theses values still hold true?
  4. Are you prepare to disregard one or more of theses values if they put you at a disadvantage?

Aligning with your core values all the time makes you powerful.

Ref:. www.myrkothum.com/personal-values/

and www.decision-making-solutions.com/personal_core_values.html

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