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Dealing with Depression using Hypnotherapy

Hypnotherapy seeks to uncover the root cause of the negative feelings and emotion, thus removing the symptoms of depression.

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Hypnotherapy for depression

The aim of hypnotherapy as a type of depression treatment is to target the root cause of the issue and to develop better coping behaviours. In most circumstances you will usually forget or suppress the cause of your depression because of the association with negative feelings. It’s not difficult to forget an event on a conscious level, but it is on a subconscious level. This is why it’s best to confront the issue head on, rather than burying it, which can worsen your depression.

Hypnotherapy connects directly with the subconscious mind. Your hypnotherapist will address your perception of the event that has caused you to become depressed with the aim to improve your self-esteem, mood and help you gain your independence back.

Depression is a common psychological disorder – anyone can become depressed. Yet it’s more than just feeling unhappy, bored or fed up. If feelings don’t go away quickly, or they start affecting your everyday life, it may be time to seek professional help.

According to research, approximately one in four people in South Africa will suffer from a mental health problem at any one time throughout the year – with depression being one of the most common types.

With the right support and treatment, such as counseling and hypnotherapy, people can overcome the common mental health condition.

On this page we will look at depression more closely, exploring the symptoms, types and causes. We will also look into the different forms of depression treatment, including hypnosis.

Living with depression

If you have depression, you will find living with the condition hard on yourself, but also your close family and friends. It can affect the way you eat, sleep, work and the way you feel about yourself and your life. Other people may tell you to ‘pull yourself together’ or ‘snap out of it’, but no matter how much you want to, it’s not that easy. This is not a sign of weakness as some people may believe, but part of the psychological disorder.

It can be difficult to explain how you are feeling to others. Sometimes you may become overwhelmed with emotion, or even feel emotionless. This can lead to a breakdown in relationships. If depression is untreated, it can have massive effect on your health, finances, work and relationships. It’s advised to seek help as early as you possibly can by visiting your GP. Many people find hypnotherapy useful for managing a number of symptoms of depression, alongside other types of therapy such as counseling.

Symptoms of Depression

Depression affects people in different ways. It can cause a variety of physical and psychological symptoms. In most circumstances you may feel hopeless, sad and lose interest in things that you used to enjoy.

Symptoms of depression can persist for long periods of time and can interfere with your family, social and professional life. If you experience any of the following symptoms every day for two weeks, you should contact your GP:

Psychological symptoms

  • feeling constantly pessimistic
  • feeling constantly sad, anxious or empty
  • feeling restless and irritable
  • feeling worthless, helpless or guilty
  • difficulty concentrating and making decisions
  • thoughts of death or suicide
  • losing interest in things
  • having low self-esteem.

Physical symptoms

  • changes in sleep patterns
  • tiredness
  • constipation
  • aches and pains
  • changes in appetite
  • lack of energy
  • loss of libido.

Social symptoms

  • loss of interest in hobbies or activities
  • not performing well at work or school
  • avoiding contact with friends
  • having problems in your family and home life.

Types of Depression

There are a number of different types of depression. They tend to be categorized by the severity of symptoms, their prevalent features and duration. The Diagnostic and Statistics Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM) documents most types of depression. The DSM is a publication by the American Psychiatric Association. It describes the criteria for mental health disorders.

A common criterion for depressive disorders in the DSM is that they either cause significant distress or impair the individual’s functioning at school, work or at home. According to the DSM, medication or drugs cannot cause the symptoms of depression.

Clinical depression

This is also known as major depression or major depressive disorder. Clinical depression is the most severe type of depression. This is because more of the symptoms are present at any one time compared with other types. Clinical depression is usually diagnosed when at least five of the symptoms are present at the same time for two weeks or more. The depressive period may only occur once in an individual’s life. However it can reoccur after the initial episode.

To be diagnosed with clinical depression you must exhibit a depressed mood or a decreased sense of enjoyment in activities (especially ones you used to enjoy). Typically a medical professional will look for at least four or more of the following symptoms to make a diagnosis of clinical depression:

  • a loss of energy or fatigue
  • a change in sleeping patterns
  • a significant change in weight or increase in appetite
  • difficulty concentrating, making decisions or thinking
  • suicidal thoughts
  • feeling guilty or worthless
  • slowing down or excessive movement (typically observed by others).

Dysthymic disorder

Dysthymic disorder, or dysthymia, isn’t as severe as clinical depression. However it occurs on a daily basis for a number of years. Dysthymia can develop at an early stage in your life and if this is the case, it is common that you might believe it is a normal way of feeling.

To have dysthymic disorder, you will have been in a constantly depressed mood for at least two years and exhibit at least two of the following symptoms:

  • a loss of energy or fatigue
  • low self-esteem
  • a change in eating habits
  • a change in sleeping patterns
  • difficulty in making decisions or concentrating
  • feeling hopeless.

The symptoms don’t tend to last more than two months at a single time. Typically this is described as having less severe symptoms of depression on a persistent basis.

Bipolar disorder/manic depression

Bipolar disorder (originally known as manic depression) causes your mood to alternate between intense highs and unbearable lows. These contrasting periods are known as episodes of mania and depression. A manic episode or depressive episode is diagnosed if three or more of the mood symptoms below occur nearly every day for at least a week:

Manic episode

  • increase in energy and activity
  • intensely high mood
  • extreme irritability
  • racing thoughts, fast talking jumping from idea to idea
  • finds it hard to concentrate
  • little sleep needed
  • unrealistic thoughts about their abilities or powers
  • a lasting period of behaviour that is different from usual
  • intrusive or aggressive behaviour
  • denial of anything being wrong.

Depressive episode

  • lasting sad or anxious mood
  • pessimism
  • feeling guilty or helpless
  • loss of interest or pleasure in activities
  • decreased energy, tiredness and irritability
  • difficulty concentrating
  • change in appetite
  • sleeping too much, or can’t sleep
  • chronic pain or other persistent bodily symptoms
  • thoughts of death or suicide.

Postnatal depression

Postnatal depression is a treatable disorder. It usually occurs two to five days after having a baby and it affects between 10 and 15% of mothers. The symptoms are similar to those of other depressive disorders and can range from very mild cases of ‘baby blues’ to a severe disorder called postnatal psychosis. Other symptoms may include frequently crying for no apparent reason and feelings of rejection from a partner, family, friends or even the baby.

Causes of Depression

There isn’t a single cause of depression – it tends to develop for a number of different reasons. In some cases a stressful life event such as an illness, bereavement or divorce could be the cause.

In the majority of cases, different causes can combine to trigger depression. For example, you might be going through a divorce, and then suffer the loss of a close family member.

According to research, as you get older, your chances of developing depression increases. This risk also rises if you have lived through tough economical and social circumstances.

Here are a number of circumstances that can cause depression:

Stressful events

Stressful events, such as a relationship breakdown, can take a while to come to terms with. When you go through such an event, you run a higher risk of becoming depressed, especially if you try to combat the feelings on your own.

Illness

If you have a long-term or life threatening illness, you may have a higher risk of developing a depressive disorder. Head injuries can also be a cause – severe trauma can trigger emotional problems and mood swings.

Personality traits

Some personality traits leave you at greater risk. If you have low-self esteem or are overly critical about your actions, you might be more vulnerable. These traits could have been inherited from your parents or they could have been caused by early life experiences.

Close family

If a member of your close family has depression, it’s more likely that you will have it too.

Post-pregnancy

After giving birth, some women are vulnerable to the mental health condition. The physical and hormonal changes, paired with the increased responsibility of your new baby can lead to postnatal depression.

Loneliness

If you are cut off from your friends and family for an extended period of time, you might be at a higher risk of developing a depressive condition.

Drugs and alcohol

Taking drugs and drinking too much alcohol may be a last resort for some people when life is getting them down. This always makes things worse.

Drugs such as cannabis can relax you, but it can cause depression. This is especially prevalent in teenagers.

Alcohol has been classed as a ‘strong depressant’ – it makes depression worse.

Depression Treatment

For any mental health problem, you should contact your GP as your first port of call. Below is what your doctor may recommend for treatment depending on the severity of your condition.

Mild

  • Wait a while – In some cases, mild depression may improve on its own. If your GP suggests this, you will have to go back every few weeks for them to monitor your progress.
  • Exercise – Some evidence suggests that exercising can help battle mental health issues. You may be referred to a qualified trainer to set up an exercise routine.
  • Self-help groups – Speaking to others that are going through the same thing can be helpful.

Mild to moderate

  • Talking therapy – If you have mild depression that isn’t going away, or if you have moderate depression, talking treatment such as psychotherapy might be recommended.

Moderate to severe

  • Mental health teams – A mental health team is made up of psychiatrists, psychologists, occupational therapists and specialist nurses. These provide support for people with severe depression.
  • Antidepressants – These are prescribed to treat the symptoms of depression.
  • Combination therapy – If your depression is quite severe, your GP may recommend antidepressants coupled with talking therapy.

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The content in this publication is presented for informative purposes only. In no sense is this information intended to provide diagnoses or act as a substitute for the work of a qualified professional. For this we recommend that you contact a reliable specialist.

Identifying Your Core Values

Your Personal values are the general expression of what is most important for you. A value expresses the worth of something, and in this case what you categorical like and dislike.

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We will focus on Cognitive Behavioural Therapy.

(CBT) is a short-term, goal-oriented psychotherapy treatment that takes a hands-on, practical approach to problem-solving. We will focus on how emotions, thoughts, and behaviors all influence each other according to CBT. All humans’ core beliefs can be summed up in three categories: self, others, future.

So they are like categories for all your preferences in life. Values are formed starting in early childhood and are later consciously re-evaluated and can therefore be changed.

By comparing two values you can discover which is representing something that is more important than the other. Therefore you rate the one value over the other.

Personal values are generally operating in the background. They influence everything what you do but usually it happens on auto-pilot. You just know intuitively what you like and dislike and decide accordingly.

Why is it Good to Know Your Personal Values?

The answer is twofold:

First you get clarity and build your self-awareness by identifying your values and secondly knowing your highest values can act like a guide for you. It makes intelligent decisions easier. Also knowing your negative values, those from which you try to keep away from, is very helpful as well. When you are clearly aware of your value hierarchy you can consciously check situations against your value-system, which will create better decisions and results. It will be easier to keep your balance in life.

For instance when you are about to make an important decision you can double-check if going the one or the other way would go against one of your core values. On the long run, that would pose a problem for you.

So all in all it’s an awareness building process which can give you direction in life.

When choosing your personal core values it is important to think about the criteria that you will use to make your selection. Since your personal values decision will have multiple answers, your criteria will also help you to prioritize and limit your list. Using our decision making model, you will want to look at other connected decisions for goals/source requirements that will influence your criteria. If you have already made decisions for a personal vision, mission statement, and/or core beliefs, you should see goals/source requirements that will influence the criteria for this decision.

With your connected decisions in mind, here are some criteria that might help in selecting your personal core values.

  • Consistent with my personal vision, mission, and core beliefs – In addition to specific goals/source requirements, you can use this criteria as a way to eliminate personal values that are inconsistent with your other decisions.
  • Inspirational – Personal values should encourage you to fulfill your purpose in life. Great personal values, read every day, will provide an uplift and motivation to take on the day’s challenges.
  • Unique – Your values need to speak to you. Don’t hesitate to use values learned from others, but your core values should help define who you are and want to be. They should reflect the priorities for your life and will tend to emphasize your strengths while compensating for your weaknesses.
  • Provides guidance – Personal core values should help you in your everyday decisions, particularly with relationships.
  • Long lasting – This is about creating your future. Expect that your values will evolve as you grow, mature and gain life experience. However, this is not about following the latest fad. If you expect a personal core value to change next week, it likely isn’t very core.
  • Meaningful and rewarding – Values provide the measures that help us live meaningful lives that fulfill our given purpose. Living a life of meaning brings us joy.

A List of Core Values

There are a lot of value lists out there, so here are just the real core values that most people have and that differentiate a character the most. I tried to keep the list tight and avoid repetition by synonyms:

Abundance Accountability Achievement Action
Adventure Ambition Awareness Balance
Beauty Being the Best Calmness Cheerfulness
Clarity Comfort Compassion Competition
Connection Contribution Control Courage
Creativity Curiosity Determination Discipline
Effectiveness Empathy Energy Enthusiasm
Excellence Fairness Faith Fame
Family Flexibility Freedom Friendship
Fulfillment Fun Harmony Happiness
Health Honesty Honor Humility
Independence Integrity Intelligence Intimacy
Inspiration Kindness Knowledge Liveliness
Love Money Nature Passion
Peace Perfection Persistence Philanthropy
Power Respect Security Simplicity
Significance Spirituality Spontaneity Strength
Stability Success Status Teamwork
Tolerance Tradition Truth Vitality
Wealth Wisdom

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Create Your Value Hierarchy

In order to create your 10 top-values do the following:

  1. Select the 10 values from the list above that you like most. (of course you can also do a Top 5 or Top 3)
  2. Start with the first in the list. Then order this by importance by comparing two values by asking: “Which one is more important to me if I had could only have one and had to compromise the second?” Remove the winner and write it on top of a new list and then continue with the remaining 6 on the old list and so on.
  3. Do this for all 10 until you have an ordered list of your top 10 values.

Here are my top 10 personal values:

  1. Truth
  2. Integrity
  3. Contribution
  4. Love
  5. Inspiration
  6. Family
  7. Fulfillment
  8. Health
  9. Creativity
  10. Success

Your value hierarchy expresses your character of course. Someone who values adventure highly is a different character as someone who values stability more. Someone who values success highly is different than someone who values family on top.

An interesting exercise is also to create your top 10 negative values, which express what you really dislike or what is totally unimportant to you.

Are Values Fixed or Can I Change Them?

By there very nature, your value-system tend to be more stable, it is your character in it’s many facettes. But single values are not static and fixed. They can change. Personal values usually change when something big happens, or when you are consciously re-evaluating your life and make a decision, based on your experiences, to change your value hierarchy.

As an example I valued diversity a lot in my first business. Later I learned by experience all the drawbacks of doing a lot at a time and now I value simplicity more.

So what when you are dissatisfied with a value you have and what to change it?

For instance you may have the top value of stability and you want to become a bit more flexible in your life. (could be the other way around as well) Changing this would work if you create experiences and enjoy them that are in alignment with the new value: flexibility in this example.

So to integrate a new value into your top-values:

  1. Create positive experiences that express this value in your life
  2. Decrease experiences that are aligned with the opposite value in your life
  3. Also working on your beliefs will make it easier to adapt to new values.

Please break your list down to TOP 5 and then to TOP 3 personal values.

What are your TOP 3 personal values?

This is my TOP 3 personal values:

  1. Integrity
  2. Truth
  3. Love

No person likes making mistakes. Having well defined personal core values helps us avoid making choices that work against who we want to be. Our values become a clear set of guidelines for our words and actions, consistently moving us in the direction aligned with our core beliefs and personal vision. Our life becomes one of our choosing, not one that is directed by the decisions of others. Our values help us build and maintain our identity as unique individuals.

Choosing and knowing your values can provide a number of benefits that include:

  • Reducing stress
  • Making better decisions
  • Finding environments and people that support your aspirations
  • Increasing joy and happiness
  • Supporting your growth and development
  • Helping in times of conflict or confusion
  • Growing contribution and value
  • Providing motivation

Knowing it or not, choosing it or not, all of us have a set of personal core values. Prevent discontent, conflict, frustration and lack of fulfillment by choosing consciously the values by which you want to live.


Now do the limpness test: Ask yourself the four following questions?

  1. Would you sacrifice any of theses vales for a million rand?
  2. Have you lost any of theses core values in times of stress?
  3. In 20 years would theses values still hold true?
  4. Are you prepare to disregard one or more of theses values if they put you at a disadvantage?

Aligning with your core values all the time makes you powerful.

Ref:. www.myrkothum.com/personal-values/

and www.decision-making-solutions.com/personal_core_values.html

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